im only 2 mnths pegnant & my belly is gettin bigger! Wut do i do????!
2007-12-29 15:31:46 · 19 answers · asked by Buzy Bee 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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2007-12-29 15:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 3⤋
Are you sure you are pregnant? Have you confirmed it with a urine test or a blood test at the doctors?
If so, you have more important things to do than worry about telling the father right now.
Tell your parents and get some help. You can't hide this forever, and it won't magically go away.
You need to decide what you are going to do. At 2 months I think it's getting a bit late for an abortion (it's a very unpalatable option anyway, taking human life) but you need to decide whether to keep it or give it up for adoption. In some countries you can even retain visitation rights for a child who is put up for adoption, if the adoptive parents agree.
This is going to change your life completely. You need to have a plan on how you will support yourself, whether you will finish school, and how you will raise the infant.
Depending on where you are in the world (I'm in Australia) there will be government or community agencies who can help you. Talk to a counsellor or teacher at your school, or a doctor, or even just look for a phone counselling service. They will be able to forward you on to more specialised help.
2007-12-29 15:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by Goonhilda 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take him out to a nice restaurant for dinner, and while you are there, tell him that you have some really good news to tell him, then just tell him that your pregnant. But say it in a really happy, positive way (even if you are not happy about it). And if he gets upset/sad/angry when you tell him, then you just try to make it sound like it is the best thing that has happened and you are so excited about it.
2007-12-29 16:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 17 and i got pregnant 16 the best thing to do is just to let him know soon before he ends up doing something else....it was hard but its not good to keep all that stress in u its bad for the baby!!!
2007-12-29 17:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by sad_scarlet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st if ur showing already, either u need to slow up on the twinkies, or ur farther along then u think.
but write him a love letter, and end it with letting him know,something like " I love u dearly, and babe last time we made love we made more than that, we are going to bring new life into this world, our love has produced a heir."
if he is literate, he'll love the letter and be happy with you. best of luck
2007-12-29 18:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by Nausea is annoying!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha good job that'll teach ya.hope u enjoy parenthood.and tryin ta trik ya boyfriend ta sty wid ya wid da old pregnancy act...u do no he gona run frm u.a.den wot u gona do.a?.b a teenage mum living of taxpayers money.i hope u love all that baby crying in the middle of the night.stinky nappies.no social life.stress.on da briteside..ur kids turn out ta b ten times worse then yourself towards u den u r to ur parents.happy baby times little girl.
2007-12-29 16:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to keep that baby with you.
ABout him: I think you should leave him a letter and walk away and see what he will do, if he came after you then he loves you and he wants that baby so you give it to him and you guys get married, GOODLUCK!
If he didn't care and he ran away, FORGET HIM, he doesn't worth you and doesn't worth your baby too, so the next guy will be better than him so if he won't be nice to you then other guy will be nice to you, Take care of yourself and goodluck
2007-12-29 15:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by atdyrhs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
!!!SURPRISE!!! Sorry, sorry, I apologize but I couldn't help it.
Now seriously, you should let him know before you tell your parents. Let him adjust to the idea before being questioned by your family (as you both should be about your intentions now that you are to be parents). You should tell your parents soon, but I'd give him advance notice.
Good luck and you'll feel better once they all know and you're not hiding it anymore.
2007-12-29 15:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by hillbillylana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i would say u go up to him and say "i'm pregnant" but if u really wanna u could say something crazy like u grew a set of balls. however i think the first option will make ur message a lot clearer. ur choice though. :)
2007-12-29 16:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by yossi c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is a hard thing I would just say " well for two months I have been keeping this silent for the right time and I think it is now I am two months pregnant and then just wait good luck
2007-12-29 15:39:01 · answer #10 · answered by Lynne B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should not be showing you but I suggest you explain to him everything, if he is understanding he will not accuse you of anything.
2007-12-29 15:47:00 · answer #11 · answered by Hiro a Hero? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋