Opinions on women and sex?

Question

Men, what would you think if you met a woman and you both had intimate relations and she wasn't further interested in you or wanted anything further(relationship for example).
Would you be pleased or would you have a negative opinion and see her as a whore?

Yes, if the woman wasn't interested in gaining anything of a monetary value and didn't expect anything at all(relationship wise)and just had intimate relations with you, would it throw you off?
I've read about some guys complaining that women use sex as a bargaining chip and wonder what these guys would think if the woman had absolutely no expectations at all.

Just wondered about this because am sure that I'm not the only woman who's ever done this(before marraige) and it wasn't to play games with a guy either, I was serious, didn't want anything from them-was happy being single. Can see now that some men would see that as being cold-hearted though and could be hurt.

Answer 1

It would depend on how the expectations were set.

If it was a casual no strings one night thing, then that's fine, take it for what it is, then let it go.

If I was expecting a relationship to form, I would be hurt, but being hurt is a risk we all take when entering into emotional spaces, and sometimes life is not all that we would wish.

I would deal with my own hurt, and bless her and wish her luck on her journey.

Answer 2

I hope that I'm not off kilter here; only this reminds me of when I was back in 10th grade Biology; a very nice looking boy sat next to me and asked me if I balled. With a weird look on my face I asked what is that? Suddenly it dawned on me what that was. "I don't do those things and what have you use me?" He insisted he'd never use me; we never got together. So, across the room this girl is waving her hand all about "I ball, I ball." That night they got together and the next day she was in tears cause he was calling her nothing but a cheap whore. Perhaps, it might depend upon the girl. Still, keep in mind this was only one occurrence; IT SHOULD NEVER OVERRIDE those who've had better experiences.*I just want to add this to lighten the mood; that same day that girl, of course, before she agreed to balling, told us we looked like brother and sister; we're not even related; even my cousin said the same thing.*Sorry about screaming I saw the need to make my point clearer is all.

Answer 3

This illustrates why sex outside of marriage is morally wrong.
Think of all the multiplicity of problems that would be avoided by following the logical and common sense rule of no premarital sex.
Why do both sexes unnecessarily complicate their lives?

Let's focus on other, more important and enduring qualities in a relationship that could become a bonded, lifetime adventure!
This becomes possible when the pressure to have sex is removed, with both understanding and accepting that it is reserved for marriage only!

Answer 4

Actually I have had those type of relationships where it was just sex, and fun, nothing else. I personally enjoyed it, but from the begining we both made a decision that it would be that way. If one of you does not know that is what is going on that is very bad. There can also be complications. If one of you starts caring for the other for example. There is nothing you can do about your feelings but if that happens I would recomend getting out cause you will get hurt. If you are both mature, secure with yourselves and you have discussed it then I say go for it. It can be fantastic. It is like having a part time girlfriend. You get all the sex, without the games, jelousy, or any other BS that can happen.

Answer 5

I'd be estatic. Just because you like sex doesn't mean you are a whore. Men only call women whores in two situations. One, the woman they like won't have them, so she is a whore. Two, the man isn't getting any, so all women are whores.

Answer 6

I am a member of a big adult site and thats what we all get up in there,one nite stands are absolutely fine,when they start,meant to be just that,no strings attached.......apart from the hand cuffs and the rest of the toys during.....the next day I walk away expecting nothing more.If the performance was great and a replay is requested I am happy to oblige

Answer 7

My friend's wife told me to hold out longer if I want women to appreciate me. The married women stop being friends with you as soon as they know you won't do anything with them also.

And I usually walk away when they play the game that Lioness is suggesting. And then the women get pissed off(real bad)... I never understand it. Say what you mean or forget about it.

Answer 8

If that happened to me, I suppose my reaction would reflect what expectations I had...I mean, if going into this it was understood by both to be a "no strings attached" situation, then I guess I would have no reason to feel used. My self-image and self-esteem might be a little bruised, but I'd get over it. But if going into this I thought that sex meant we were both entering a new level of serious commitment, then I suppose I'd feel much more hurt..and yes, used...if after sex that person wanted nothing more to do with me. Sometimes people think they are "on the same page"...but they aren't. It's probably best to discuss such things BEFORE you go to bed with someone. (However, that doesn't guarantee you won't later be sorry later on...but probably at least minimizes the risk.)

Answer 9

If I had met her when I was 16 I wouldn't be so messed up. I'd be smiling from ear to ear.
We never call the woman we slept with a whore. That name is used for her by other women.

Answer 10

I would think that I had encountered the tail of the female sexual behavioral distribution and would react thus; realistically. That is not an opinion.

The assumptions of the Panthera leo on assumptions are just incoherent blather.