Okay. There's a guy who is my friend. For the last three years he has liked me. I don't feel the same way about him, and he knows it. The thing is, he's become obsessed or something. He will not leave me alone. He always has to know what I'm doing, who I'm with, and everything. I've tried to be nice about it and act like a regular friend, but he seemes to take it the wrong way or get the wrong impression or just something. My friends have told him to back off and he told one of them that he was going to make me go out with him. I don't want to be mean to him but I don't know what else to do. He just seemes to ignore everything anyone says about me not liking him like that!! I've told him so, but he doesn't seem to understand!! He won't back off!! Any suggestions??? I really would appreciate it!! Thnks!!!
2007-12-29 12:17:48 · 5 answers · asked by Kassie Leann 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
try talking to him one more time. explain him being
obsessed with you makes you feel very uncomfortable.
i do not reccomend being blunt, but make it as plain
as you can in a nice way you have no intention of
going out with him. you could say although you are
flattered by the way he feels about you, unfortunately
you do not feel that way about him and you would
appreciate it if the two of you went your own seperate
ways. good luck and God Bless.
2007-12-29 12:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u have an older brother or a father that could make him back off...leave him alone and i dont think it would be a very good idea to keep him as a freind...ull only end up in a garbage bag on the side of the road...jealousy usually ends up that way.
2007-12-29 12:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by Billie Longfellow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know how many girls have been killed because they didn't want to be "mean" to somebody? Sorry to be so blunt, but this guy isn't considering your feelings in any of this, so why are you so concerned about his? The way he is acting is seriously a sign of a problem and if you don't do whatever you have to do to cut off contact with him, then you are crazy.
2007-12-29 12:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woahhh
get a restraining order or something
try to get another girl to like him
or get a boyfriend who will protect you
im sorry for what your going through =(
2007-12-29 12:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not much you can do unless he gets crazy stalking you or such. if he's bothering you then he's not a nice guy and dont call him 'your friend' as you state above. peace
2007-12-29 12:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋