ok, my grandma was talking to me and told me that, any kids are better than us! any of ur grandparents ever say that to you...i mean kids behave good around grown ups, but also want to act like themselves to ( they are staying w/us for 2 months. ) so we act as we normally do, and we get acussed for misbehaving, when we are not...help me what can i do with her, and talking to her doesnt help much, my mom knows, and is also getting really pissed (they made the house a mess)
any advice, to not getting angry and explode at them!!!???
thxs plez no rude comments
2007-12-29 12:04:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
each generation is shocked at how the next generation acts.. this is normal.. as for what granny said, well, that's just plain rude. - just be as nice as you can be so she has no reason to be rude. - remember, she's old, it's hard being old. give her extra hugs & kisses and suck it up 'til she's gone. - sorry.. that's the best i can do for ya!
2007-12-29 12:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by t 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you have headphones and music to listen to, pick out some loud angry songs that you can listen in the comfort of your earbuds. Go outside and breathe or go for a walk around the block and give yourself some time to calm down. Take your mom with you if necessary. Tell her your going on 'your' time, which is a signal that its time to get out of the house and away from everything. Im sure the house can handle itself until you guys get back. I've had to go as far as hiding out in the bathroom if I had no where else to go, just so i can feel like i have my own space.
I'm afraid there isnt much you can do to help this, maybe trying to explain to her that this is normal, or maybe asking her what it is that she doesnt like. Are you guys too loud? Do you run through the house? Yell and fight? All very normal stuff, but your grandma probably isnt used to it and not used to smaller kids, preteens and teens. So if you can find out what it is, share it with everyone and ask if they can keep the loud noise, yelling and fighting to rooms where granny isnt sitting there trying to nap.
O and counting to 10... sometimes really really slowly helps as well :)
2007-12-29 21:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your grandparents just come from a different time when the skills that kids or parents or anyone may use today, are different than what they had experienced. Just calmly think of a way to talk with your family. I'm sorry but I had a hard time understanding your question. Hope I could help! :)
2007-12-29 20:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be a little quieter around them, and stay out of their way. The less you bug them the better.my grand parents were really happy to tell me about their lives when they were young. You could do that, they would enjoy telling their stories of the old days when you listen look at them and ask a question about something you don't understand, that shows you are listening. You might like to learn from people that have seen the world totally change a bunch of times.
2007-12-29 20:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by redd headd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes grandparents are out of touch... I know you want to yell at them but breathe and if you can go into another room.
2007-12-29 20:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Sam B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol
dont sweat it
some grandparents are old nutcases 0_o...
not saying that yours are or anything
but you just gotta learn to speak their language
be polite
dont be a selfish little pig
and they will ⥠u forever
2007-12-29 21:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by α ρℓα¢є ¢αℓℓє∂ мєℓαи¢нσℓу . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your grandparents come from a time where people were more respectful and disciplined now most kids are ungrateful and ignorant and disobedient. That needs to change.
2007-12-29 20:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by Duderoni 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋