Hi! recently my dad has been having this very annoying disgusting and stupid idea of making me go out with a GIRL! I mean why why why? I've done almost everything to make him and my mum see with their both eyes that I am a tgirl. I mean i wear makeup and I wear women's trousers although, I havent gone full tym yet it's because of money and my fear of being killed or getting kicked out by them. I've been on hrt for almost 12 months and I'm completely happy abt it and I never had any feelings 4 a girl and because he is smudging me with his ******* insistent idea that I should go out with this girl is just ******* annoying and insulting! I just wanna shoot his head and shout at him that I am not a ******* hetero boy! I feel really terrible and angry I want to die or run away plz help this is as worse as being arranged to get married to someone you dont love or want 2 have a relationship with hellllllllllllllppppppppppppppppppppp huhuhuhuh :(
2007-12-29 07:44:20 · 12 answers · asked by Kyla Jane 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You seem to have two choices....you need to sit down with your parents and explain that you are trans or go out once with the girl and tell her.
If you have been wearing makeup and some women's clothes plus been on hormones a year.........they know something is up and probably assume you are gay and that's why the big push.
2007-12-29 08:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by Cathryn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if your parents have this idea and want you to do it, you don't have to. You can tell them that you don't want to, that your not attracted to women and that's how it is. If they make you meet this girl, I would tell her what is going on a that your not interested, that might really help. If at anytime you fear for your well being, call the police or move out. Don't stay in a dangerous situation. best of luck.
2007-12-29 08:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by KiKi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Just say no. Your parents are just holding out their last hope that you will be something you are not. It's the "if you haven't tried it, how do you know you won't like it" mentality. Only this isn't like trying spinich. Say no. Try getting some training in something so you can stand on your own feet and get out of their house soon. In the mean time stay safe. There are resources out there for you. Find them.
2007-12-29 07:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by pammy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... I'm not sure what to say kiddo... I have a friend in a similar situation... However, if you think your life is in danger due to this... then go to the police. Its a difficult porcess, but your safety is what's important.
2007-12-29 07:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by April L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! You would be a M2F transsexual? It's not exactly clear from your question....
Dude(tte) calm down. It's not like he's arranging a marriage for you or something. My dad keeps trying to get me to go after girls too, but it ain't gunna happen. Either explain to him that you're not gunna date a girl, or just ignore him and do whatever the hell you want. It's your choice. =)
2007-12-29 07:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
I think you should start saving money, so you can move out when you can. You should try to find a support group (online or real life) for transgender people.
Readers, what she is telling you is that she is a male-to-female (MTF) transgender/trans-sexual.
2007-12-29 08:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by Robin W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that you love your father, but i am going to say this:
He has some wierd sick incestuous lesbian fantasy about you, and I think he needs psychological help.
Seriously. That is NOT NORMAL.
Tell him that you read it as a creepy incestuous lesbo fantasy, and you want him to get psychological help for it because you are his daughter and you love him.
That will either convince him, or it will make him back down.
2007-12-29 07:56:15 · answer #8 · answered by 1Up 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
LOL some of the straight people don't even get the point of it.
2007-12-29 08:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it time to Transition?
May be they won't take it serious until you do.
Good luck Kyla.
2007-12-29 08:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by Post Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋