2007-12-29 07:36:49 · 21 answers · asked by Sister Buk (Dots) 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
no and let go of buk hair, seesh
2007-12-29 11:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mh 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question. When I was in high school, I promised my friends that I would not settle when I got married. I always hung out with guys and they always looked out for me. It always sucked because they looked at me like I was their sister. Anyway, when it came time for me to get married, I decided that I just wanted to settle down and be with someone the rest of my life. My husband doesn't match the criteria for which I had in mind when I thought about my dream guy. He is not as good of a Christian as I had hoped. He isn't willing to have as many kids as I wanted my dream guy to want. He doesn't make as much money as I had imagined. But even with all of these things that I have settled on, I am so glad that I did! He is more thoughtful and understanding than any "dream guy" could possibly be. So I think you can settle, but if you are as lucky as I am, you end up getting more than you expected!
2007-12-29 15:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Way back in the day, I did, I felt I needed to have someone in my life, but I'm a little older, and, allot wiser now. I think some people "hold on" just to keep from being alone, and I"d rather be alone than be in an unloving relationship. I've got good friends and family, and...IF, I ever find true love, it will serve as the "frosting on my cake".
2007-12-29 18:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Cami 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you settle to have love i don't believe it is love. i think then it is comfort and companionship. that situation could of course grow into love. comfort and companionship is not a bad thing. you can really get to know someone but you can't pretend to love the person just to fulfill your needs. don't say i love you if you don't mean it.
2007-12-29 15:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by alida 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope. I've been waiting for love. I don't believe in settling for anything...
2007-12-29 15:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did at one time, but now I am smarter (I hope) and will not settle.
2007-12-29 16:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great question! I did twice. Even went as far as marriage...twice. I guess I'm a slow learner. But now It's real. What a difference!!!!
2007-12-29 17:45:34 · answer #7 · answered by don't touch my mullet 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i must admit i am a settler soulmate no where to be found real love only comes once in a lifetime my chance is over i am afraid
2007-12-29 21:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by THE GENERAL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never settle for less...what am I, in High School ???? LOL !!!
2007-12-29 15:42:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No... I wouldn't settle for anything mediocre just to "have" it.
2007-12-29 17:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋