The answers is so easy because you are not in my shoe. I know I have done wrong and now I have to pay the price for it. I am only 14 years old and I can't have a child at this age. I am at risk if I keep it because 1 my father would kill me. 2 I would get sent back home with no means of taking care of the child.
I guess I will take my chances and see a doctor hopefully he/she can help me before it's too late.
2007-12-29 06:33:47 · 10 answers · asked by MIKETEKORG 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I don't want to be in your shoe....
Do you have a trusted adult you can talk to about all of this? A close friend...?
2007-12-29 06:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been in ur shoes before and i had a grand mother who was CRAZY and i had to tell her and omg she almost killed me and almost forced me to get married it was nuts..so i know how u feel 100%...i knew i needed help and i knew i was preg i took a test and i knew i needed to tell someone cause i had to see a doctor...i know i will get major thumbs down for this but if u r preg u can have a abortion but its not somthing u should NOT do alone u will need help and surport to get threw a thing like that. Or u can always tell ur parnets and plan to give the baby up to a family who wants a child. to get an abortion u have to be 2 months along and u cant be over like 3 months......also it cost alot of money and its very painful and very emotional thing to do!!! ....Either way u need help from a parnet dont be one of them girls who hide being preg and throw the baby away when they have it! GL
2007-12-29 06:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by missy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not the only one going through this.
you don't need to keep the baby; adoption is always an option.
nobody will blame you for putting the baby up for adoption. its the right choice, you're giving the child a better life.
abortion is ending its life. its already alive. as soon as your egg got fertilized, a baby lived. its living right now. its growing. don't kill it, please.
there are many teen mothers, even younger than you, that have had children and either kept it or given it up.
just don't get an abortion!
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btw, will your father kill you for getting pregnant, or having sex?
you should have thought about the consequences and said 'how about lets not do this'
i'll pray for you!
2007-12-29 07:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kenna Coconut™ Actorasauress Rex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not the only fourteen-year-old in the world, so stop acting like it revolves around you. "My father would kill me" you say. Bet you weren't thinking of that when you had sex, huh?
I'm the same age as you, but because of this question, I see you as a child. KIDS like you shouldn't be fooling around! (Especially if you don't know the facts and consequences.)
2007-12-29 06:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
r u saying that you are pregnant and you're trying to get rid of it well let me tell you this if you believe and know GOD you would know that he doesnt approve of abortions you was grown enough to lay down with some boy so stand up and be a young lady and take care of it. oh make sure you know who the father is cause now days men are denying their children so welcome to the real world
2007-12-29 06:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by purplewoman 86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone tell you what to do. It's your body and your decision. The right thing for you is the right thing to do.
Talk to planned parenthood. They will give you lots of answers and lots of help. It's all about knowing your options and what you'll deal with once you decide.
2007-12-29 06:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, do you only have one foot? Just curious.....you did say "you are not in my shoe".
You're going to have to be all grown up now and accept the consequences of your actions. You can't play house and not expect anything to happen.
2007-12-29 06:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear you have to make such a hard choice.
You must do what is best for you; it's your life, not anyone else's. Wishing you luck.
2007-12-29 06:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by KC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you happen to be pregnant
take deep breaths before telling your parents, it wont all be bad
itll be good to get it off your shoulders once you tell them =]]
just relax, or find something that makes you relaxed... itll all be fine once it is done and over with
2007-12-29 06:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by Lills Gills 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry thats horrible i wish i could help save this innocent childs life. but good luck with that~
2007-12-29 07:45:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋