My wife says she no longer see's me as a sexual plaything. I am hurt, bewilderd and the lads down the Leg of Mutton(A Public House) are starting to talk, do you think its fair I am Seventy years old, shes a little younger but acts older, she says more maturely?
2007-12-29 06:01:03 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Senior Citizens
Hey Tracer 10 min. lust what are you the marathon man.
2007-12-29 08:53:54 · update #1
It was not me who told the saloon bar of the Leg of Mutton about our sex lives, but I believe Dragon might have hit the nail on the head and maybe its just about energy, if she did less talking and more doing the love might come back into our relationship.
2007-12-29 13:53:06 · update #2
Well ... I suspect you are spending too much time at the Leg O'Mutton Pub imbibing and complaining about the Missus. When was the last time you bathed? Or performed as an object of her affection.? Your buddies ain't telling you but they are probably getting the same treatment or are in deep denial about this sensitive penile matter...or more likely that their member probably doesn't work too well at their age anyway. Could it be that you are just trying to fool the public by complaining about it? Love this story!
2007-12-29 06:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Do you see her as a sex object is the most important question? If not then you're both at an impasse and can either spice things up or whilst she's putting in her false teeth you can do what most men can do in 2 minutes and snore away like the rest of us!
2007-12-29 06:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If it has taken you until you are 70 to get to this stage, I think you are doing very well ! Most men lose their "sex object" status way before that ! Good for you - and don't worry about the fellows down at the Leg of Mutton - they are just jealous !! Keep smiling and they'll never know what is going on in your private life !!
2007-12-29 06:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by Stella 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Maybe if you spent a little less time down at the Leg of Mutton with your buds, and more time with your wife, she may come around again. A little understanding and affection goes a long way. If you just want to sit around with the guys complaining, nothing is going to change.
2007-12-30 05:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by Moe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, just a few tips to help you put a light to that torch......and waken her passion :- Stop talking about your sex life at the local pub, are you nuts? Now........Have a bath or shower, at least once a week, wether you need it or not ! Watch your weight and waist line, if you still got one that is.
Talk to her, not grunt. Put your teeth in especially if you are intending to kiss her or make love. De fluff your ears, your nose, your belly button. Put some aftershave on.
Stop picking your ears, your nose, your belly button, sucking your teeth, farting in bed or within ear shot of her.
Well that's a start, now go get the Viagra out the cupboard.
Happy New year to you both!
2007-12-29 07:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by SUPER-GLITCH 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I think alot of it has to do in the effort you put forth. Do you still get cleaned up and wine and dine her before you expect to be her play thing? Maybe, instead of going to the Leg of Mutton, you ought to make a date with your wife and try to rekindle the fire.It is never too late.I know you can do it, so I will give you an "E" for your efforts!!
2007-12-30 05:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a problem as you get older the sex drive tends diminish. Also some of the drugs older people take can affect that. You might try improving your sex techniques. Better foreplay etc. Oh and take no notice of the idiots who tell you sex is something to do with sin
2007-12-29 06:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
At 70 I don't think any of us will be sex objects, and that is okay. As long as you still care for each other and don't worry about what anyone else says or does, you will be okay.
2007-12-29 10:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i would say thats a good thing since sex belongs to a sinful purpose. and i bet if you ask her if she love you more and finds you physically attractive in other ways that are not of the image made to be sexy. couples create their own stylely of physical connection. i would be connent with that because it takes the threat away. when a man is to sexy a woman feels she must act out. she just in pure love is being with you. dont become all insecure and uncompfortable when naked, now. your silly.
2007-12-29 06:16:18 · answer #9 · answered by stupe 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
awww you poor thing. Sean Connery is still a sex object and he's older than you so take heart
2007-12-29 07:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by vall 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋