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okay so last night my friend had her bday party.
We went out to eat and it was fun.
Once we got back to her house two of the 10 girls where on there phone texting. Everyone thought it was inpoilte..so we go up to my friends room and i leave. I didnot care for wat they where tlking about i mean its not any of my business..so i go downstairs to watch a ftball game...out of all my friends i am the only one who watches sports. I cannot help it i grew up watching them and going to them... So they where talking about me behind my back saying man she needs to get a life all she ever does is watch sports. Which that is a false statement.. i mean i could have either been up in the room talking about boys and drama our watching ftball..so i chose ftball. then two other girls came down bc they didnot care for drama either...soo in a way i feel bad but then again i donot. I donot get why girls dont like sports and why they judge ppl?!?
someone help me out on wat to do.

2007-12-29 05:46:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

3 answers

OK let me see, In my opinion I think you take it cool, by cool i mean relax, you shouldn't care or get stressed out by what those girls say about you, and don't feel bad cos if you wanna watch the football game, watch it!
and if non of what I just said helped you out, do what I do when people are talking about me behind my back.
Its simple: in one ear and out the other. So basically forget it as soon as you've heard it because its not worth the stress of it, believe me its not.

2007-12-29 09:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sherwin 3 · 0 0

Hey, man... you have to live your own life. If they don't approve of what you are doing, that's their problem. If they were really your friends, they wouldn't care. They'd like you anyway.

This is the reason why I don't hang out with very many females. They are two-faced and backstabbers. I have the same two best friends I've had since I was like 12 and that suits me just fine. I'm 27 and feel no need to have all these extraneous superficial relationships. I don't feel the need for all this drama and talking about unimportant sh!t, and apparently you don't, either. That's a commendable thing. People get offended when you don't think the same things are important that they do. They also get offended when you don't really give two sh!ts about their opinion of what you like or who you are. But you know what? That's their problem.

Don't change who you are for other people. The only one who will end up miserable is you. If they are really your friend, they will like you and accept you anyway. If they don't, they are not your real friends and that's the truth.

2007-12-29 14:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

YOu are a kid experiencing what adult life will be very soon.
Now you shoudl be stress free as you hist 20 and 30 that is when you shoould be aggravated wtih people and drama.

For now you should just let it roll...

Mc

Happy New years from Las Vegas to you and all

2007-12-29 14:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by Michael M 7 · 1 0

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