Pregnacy Help!?

Question

In my previous question i told you how this ACCIDENTAL PREGNACY happend.Well i am starting to show and my parents don't know i'm pregnat.If they find out theyll kick me out of the house and arrest my cousin for having sex with me.What do i do?Help!

Answer 1

You say in your profile you're 19. If that's the case, you're an adult, and your parents cannot do a darn thing to your cousin, unless you are suggesting you were raped, which is not clear from your posts. Even so, your parents are not the ones who can press charges. YOU would have to report the rape to the police.

Also as an adult, you have to face the consequences of your own actions. If you're living with your parents and they aren't happy about your pregnancy, they can kick you out, it's their right. So hopefully you have a job and some money set aside and can find somewhere to live where you will be able to raise your child.

I won't lay the whole "ew" trip on you over it being with your cousin. Cousins can legally marry in several states. There is no significant risk for genetic issues with a baby conceived by cousins, despite popular belief (I've studied genetics in college and was a tutor, also, so I know this for a fact.)

Act like the adult you are and tell your parents. If you don't want to tell them who the father is, that's your choice. Obviously you will have to tell your cousin - he has a right to know about this pregnancy, and your child deserves to know who the father is. Get a DNA test - if you got drunk and woke up having sex once, who knows who else you might have slept with if you were drunk and passing out - do you do this kind of thing a lot?

Good luck. Hopefully you've learned some lessons about personal responsiblity and accountability from this.

Answer 2

You have to tell your parents. You may think they will kick you out but surprisingly most parents are supportive once the initial shock has passed! If you want to keep the baby then you will also have to tell your cousin. if you don't want to keep it then you should see a doctor straight away before it is too late!

Honestly though, your parents will be more supportive than you think. It is so much better for you to tell them than for them to notice - you may even find that your mum already has an incling that you may be pregnant.

Good luck hun, hope that whatever you do it works out for you xx

Answer 3

wow. u are in deep ice. was it rape? if it was then yah call the police. and dont keep it from your parents. if they kick you out of the house then that shows that they are not good parents. parents are supposed to help you when you have troubles. not dump you in the street. tell your parents and if they do kick you out, then tell them to f*ck off a**holes. live wit a diferent realative

Answer 4

seems such as you're. My first being pregnant, the attempt i took got here up like yours. One very seen line and one faint line, nonetheless seen yet fainter then the different. I recommend taking yet another attempt in basic terms to be on the risk-free side and then reserving that app on the docs if it comes up constructive returned. Goodluck!!

Answer 5

As far as I understand it your cousin is not a direct BLOOD relative, so not illegal, in fact I believe most countries allow mariage to a cousin.

You NEED to tell your parents though . . . .

Answer 6

umm, if you tell them that you were drunk and he took advantage of you, then they are retarded to kick you out of the house! get a job and an apartment just in case.

Answer 7

I would learn how to spell 'pregnant' and 'pregnancy' for a start.

Answer 8

ouch, u had sex w/ur causin? omg...tell ur parents and keep the baby, don't abord it at all... its not babys fault.... its a blessing....move in w/ ur causin, im sure he'll help....or w/1 of ur friends...

Answer 9

Ever considered an abortion?