Is it true that Gays & Lesbians have a problem with people that identify themselves as Bisexual?

Answer 1

I have heard that some gay people regard bisexual people as gay people who "don't have what it takes" to go all the way and so call themselves bisexual. This probably has its roots in the media's preference to call people bisexual rather than gay (Freddy Mercury, for example, was continually called bisexual).

I'm sure that there are many people who label themselves bisexual who feel it is easier than calling themselves gay, but that doesn't mean that truly bisexual people don't exist. To assume that bisexual people are somehow "phonies" is biphobic, shows a lack of understanding of human nature and isn't really backed up by any evidence.

I don't have any problems with people of various sexual orientation as long their preference involves consenting adults.

Answer 2

I think a lot of homosexuals seem to think of themselves as "superior" because they've "decided" on a sexuality. I once dated a girl who claimed there was no such thing as "bisexual." (That realtionship clearly didn't work out!)

I do believe in bisexuality, but I also believe that many teenagers these days claim themselves as "bisexual" when they are merely experimenting, which is totally normal. Since teenagers who experiment are more likely to be sexually promiscuous, bisexuals get the bad reputation that they're only in it so they can have sex with anyone they can get a hold of.

For most mature adult bisexuals, this is not the case, but I don't think a lot of adults (both homosexual and heterosexual) realize this and are still under the impression of those crazy teenage experimenters ;)

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Yes, my one friend when he got a boyfriend whom he thought would be with him forever he tried telling everybody he was gay and was never bisexual but last year he came out as bi and now hes trying to tell everybody he was always gay even though last year(b4 i fully came out as bi) he told me i should become bisexual so that me and him could be together.

Answer 5

It would seem so. I'm bi and I hear alot of Oh you're gay, and your just in denial. No I'm not, I enjoy being with a woman just as much as a man.

Or your desperate. Again no, I'm not. I've had 2 current sexual partners for the past 5 years and that was completely of my own free will.

Or your just confused. No I've known from as early that I can remember that I liked girls and boys.

Just accept me for whom I am already. I'm not straight, and I'm not gay. I'm bi.

Answer 6

I don't understand it myself. Just like those who say that bisexuality doesn't exist, or those who say "bisexuals are just greedy." That last one really steams me. GREEDY?! Bisexuals aren't greedy at all, they're just attracted to people of either sex. It doesn't mean that they go around jumping them. Just like a heterosexual person wouldn't go around jumping people of the opposite sex. Unless of course, they were greedy.

Anyway, to answer you question, I've never seen it action myself, but I have heard people say they've had this problem.

Answer 7

Just as some starights have problems with gays and some don't....some gays have problems with Bi's some don't. It's an individual thing.

Answer 8

Some do, I could care less. To each his own I think.

Answer 9

I haven't encountered it myself (I'm bi), but I have heard about it happening. i only catch crap from the strait side of the fence though.

Answer 10

Silly to think that they would have, Gay is Gay, there is no Bi

Hey thats funny sounds like "Do or do not, there is no try."

God made male and female in his/her image the union of male and female is the image of God this is why being Gay is a crime against God and nature