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I never realized the impact i had on peoples lives and how much a person can remember about me, such as things ive said and the type of person ive become....

I never realized the positive influence and spirit ive endowed to people thru conversations inspiring hope and ambitions till now......

So how do you impact peoples lives?

2007-12-29 03:49:59 · 11 answers · asked by King J 2 in Social Science Psychology

11 answers

I try to offer everyone a smile and be kind everyday...I'm a college student so I like to spend time doing things to benefit society. I'm heavily involved with the ACS (American Cancer Society) and I'm trying to make social change on my campus through being on the Women's and Gender Studies board. After college, I hope that I can have a career where I can make a difference in someone's life every day (a positive difference) that is!

2007-12-29 04:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by Holdin' on to Hope 5 · 0 0

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2016-10-09 09:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by zanchez 4 · 0 0

People have told me that I have impacted their lives by how I've handled difficult situations in my life. For instance, when I was pregnant with my son (now 18), I had such severe morning sickness that I threw up every 10-15 minutes, 24 hours a day for almost 3 months. I couldn't even keep water down. I couldn't eat or drink a thing and was kept alive by an IV which delivered nutrients and fluids to me. I literally almost died. I could have had an abortion to save my life and to feel better, but I refused. I went on to deliver a healthy baby boy 6 months later. When my teenage niece became pregnant, she also had severe morning sickness almost as bad as mine. Her "friends" encouraged her to have an abortion and abandoned her when she chose to keep her baby. She told me that she was inspired by what I went through and she said that if I could do it, so could she. Her son is now 16 and is a fine young man.

When I was having marital problems and my husband kidnapped my daughter the day before my father died, thereby preventing me from seeing my father before he died, I was devastated. I filed for divorce because I thought what he did was so cruel. It took me a year to finalize my divorce and my daughter was apart from me that whole time while I fought a bitter custody battle. During that time, my brother died suddenly 2 months after my father and my mother died 6 months after my brother. It was the worst time of my life. I did not allow myself to fall apart because I had children who were depending upon me to be strong. I hung in there, trusted God to give me strength, and I persevered. I now have custody of both children, I moved back to my home state to be near my family, I have a wonderful job, live in a nice part of the city and I got married again to a wonderful man who is the polar opposite of my ex-husband. Life is good. People who have seen me go through all of this have been inspired by my strength in the face of adversity. All I've done is just try to cope as best I could. I didn't do anything special. I just did what I had to do. Still, others tell me they are inspired by me and that I've had a positive impact on their lives by the way I've lived my own life.

2007-12-29 04:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 2 0

I try and smile at people in the street, its amazing the different reactions you get. I always remember the once me and my sis were standing in the bank and there was a homeless man in there, he smelled strongly of alcohol and was talking to himself and anyone who walked past. Most people tried to avoid him but me and my sis just answered his questions, DIDNT laugh at him when he said that the voices in his head told him the bank staff were stealing his money, and he couldnt find his house key even though he had ust put it in his pocket. It meant we lost our place in the queue, but it didnt matter, because he was just a nice person, with difficult circumstances. I always wonder what happened to him after he left the bank. I hope he is ok.

2007-12-29 04:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by jodee1kenobi 5 · 2 0

doing the every day thoughtful small things, that you will remember years later. I was a waitress many years ago and had a very nice older later as a customer. One day her order was completely screwed up. She asked for turkey and got chicken, peas and got carrots, coffee and got tea, blueberry pie and she got apple pie. She never gave a word of complaint. At the end I said "I'm sorry we made so many mistakes on your order". She grabbed my hand and said "it was just delicious" and left me a tip. I'll never forget her and think it would be nice if everyone was like her.

2007-12-29 03:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by inkster7 3 · 5 0

By giving good advice and helping people with their problems. People love coming to me for help because I am not gonna say things like "just go to conseling all of the answers are there" because for one thing did it ever occur to people who say this that maybe they felt more comfortable telling them that? I won't say things just to hurt people unless they give me every reason to do so and then I am not gonna undermine anyone or judge anyone because who are we to judge anyone?

2007-12-29 03:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by Your Love Is One In A Million It goes On 5 · 1 0

By being the best person I can be. Not specifically the best person but the best me I can be. Being honest, loyal, trustworthy, supportive and positive.

2007-12-29 05:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by Freckles... 7 · 0 0

By telling them how God delivered me from being a frustrated, self-centered, misdirected, miserable person. Then they can be encouraged to trust Him to be set free from the same seemingly hopeless situation.

2007-12-29 03:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by JbAchoo 6 · 1 1

By my personality and courage.

2007-12-29 11:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by ~Ellie-boo~ 4 · 0 0

Not very well anymore.
I try not to but it still happens.

2007-12-29 04:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by Paul S 5 · 0 0

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