so theres this girl who i used to only see once a day right after 4th period in school. she is the most beautiful girl ive ever seen. she is a junior and im a senior. now she doesnt go up those stairs that we saw eachother on anymore. so i dont see her anymore. i dont know her and she doesnt know me. so theres no way for me to talk to her or ask her out. what if i im her or email her sayin who i am and how i know her so she would know who i am. then i could ask for her number there so we could go out some time. is this ok? girls what would you think if a guy did that to you? how do you feel about it? i waited too long and now my chances at askin her are gone because i dont see her so this is really the only way now. i really dont see her anymore and i dont know who any of her friends are so i cant ask anything with them. if i explain myself and everything like say it doesnt matter what you say but i just had to take a chnce and ask you because i think your the most beautiful girl ive
2007-12-29 03:46:36 · 24 answers · asked by Ciao Bella is Love Drunk 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
ever seen and i just had to take a chance. ididnt want to go with out even trying. something like that but in a better way.
2007-12-29 03:46:47 · update #1
when we saw eachother she would always look at me and smile.
2007-12-29 03:47:18 · update #2
i think since your idea seems to be the only thing that could possibly work------go for it!!!!!!
if a guy did that to me i'd probably think it was really cute & i would probably give him a chance. also, the fact that she used to smile at you when you guys saw each other is a good sign :]
good luck!
2007-12-29 03:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by bella♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I think it's very sweet and endearing that you think she's the most beautiful girl you've ever seen. You don't want to freak her out. People minds will go straight to "stalker", but I don't think you are.
It's tough that you don't know any of her friends, because that's what I would have suggested.
Hmm, maybe write her a note. E-mail is weird. If a boy e-mailed me, I'd be like, that's nice, but how the hell did he get my e-mail. What else does he know? lol.
Just write a nice note. Hope it works out.
2007-12-29 11:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Email her explaining that you have seen her around and think that she is really nice looking.
wait for a reply, if she doesnt reply in the next day or 2, try and find out from one of her friends if she is dating anyone and would she be interested in a date ?
If she says no, keep trying.
If she says yes, think up a load of questions to see if your compatible or not !
Good luck x
2007-12-29 11:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy-Pants. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't email her. If some guy just email me to say hi, when I didn't know him, I'd think one of two things...1)This is some type of joke at my expense 2) Is this guy a stalker?
Talk to her at lunch. Get a friend who knows her, or one of the people in the group she hangs out with. Ask that friend to go over with you, and hang out with her group of friends. Then, start making conversation with the girl.
I wouldn't ask her out right away. Get to know her as a friend for about a week, and let her get to know you. If you asked her out right away, she'd might think that 1) your desperate 2) this is just a joke, or 3) is he a stalker?
Hope this helps, and good luck gettig your girl!!!
2007-12-29 12:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by Alyssa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but was i supposed to read all that? I'm a natural blonde i get a head ache after 5 sentences. But anyway i a guy did that to me before and it is really sweet.I'm a junior and he is a senior as well and we went on a date and we really liked each other so go for it!
2007-12-29 12:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by Rebbecca LeighAnne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead! When will you have a chance to ever see her anymore if you don't! Do you wanna take the chance of not seeing her?
2007-12-29 11:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her directly. if shes near you, ask her if you could borrow her pen or something (i know sounds lame) and then introduce yourself. leave it at that. the next time you see (prolly a day or two) ask her out. DONT EMAIL HER - thats a losers way out!
youre cute!
2007-12-29 11:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember how it was in high school. You've got to go slow...you've gotta smile....and you've gotta let the girl know that you exist. If she doesn't know you exist, then how will she ever know you do? You don't have to do much....just say a nice, gentle, 'hi' EVERY TIME you see her....then you've got to see how she REACTS.
If it's ewwww...you've got too many zits...or if she doesn't smile back...then you've got to move on. That's how I remember it in high school.
2007-12-29 12:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ladyhawke 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to lose her that easy and there's no other way, go ahead and IM her. It's not like you have anything to lose. Just send 1 message though, don't plague her with them.
2007-12-29 11:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by hating the imprints & the girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the onyl way to no is to try
the good thing is that you dont really know eachother, so if it doesn't turn out the way u hoped ur not completely embarassed
2007-12-29 11:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by Ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋