Is it possible for a guy to sleepwalk and put on one of your silky bra & Undies sets? I came back from a trip?

Question

early and found him asleep in my bra and silky bikini undies! LOL!
He says he must have sleep lwalked. Somehow he manged to even wear a matching set!
What would you say or do?

Answer 1

I guy could sleepwalk while wearing your bra & panties, but I don't think he could put them on while he was sleepwalking. You should make him sleep in the bra & panties he was wearing for a few nights, maybe even let him wear a babydoll or a nightie. Then one weekend or evening, ask him if he has ever tried on any of your clothes, then before he can answer, ask him if he wants to dress-up in your clothes. Then take him into the bathroom, make him shave his legs, underarms, chest, everything, then give him the bra & panties and after he puts them on, sit him down & do his make-up & nails. Then tell him to go into your closet & pick out something nice & sexy to wear. Now, if you don't have anything in his size, have him put on the bra & panties & take him shopping for some clothes in his size & get him a pair of high heels too.


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Answer 2

First, I gotta say, that's a pretty funny way to explain it- I sleepwalked into your bra and panties!?! Hilarious...

Seriously, though- you know that's not what happened and so does he. There could be several things going on here: he could be regularly dressing in women's clothes, and this is the first time you caught him; he might have tried it this once, knowing you were going to be away, and fallen asleep... or any variation between these two. The thing is, he felt it was necessary, when you saw him in your bra and panties, to lie about it. Certainly, whether he's a regular cross-dresser or was just dabbling, there are reasons he wouldn't want to admit it, but now it's just hanging there between you. What you need to ask yourself is: how much do I want to know?

I should say that if he is cross-dressing it doesn't mean he's gay- that's a common misconception. If you are open-minded, this could take sex to a whole different level for the two of you. If you're not into it, I think it's important you try to make peace with the idea that this might be his "thing."

Answer 3

Almost anything is possible, but as I'm sure you already know it is highly unlikely especially if something similiar has not happened while yu've been home. Although I personally think it is an odd behavior, I as his wife would be more concerned about his sexuallity than fetish. Wearing women's delicates does not necessarily make him gay, but odds are he is. Go on Craigslist or Backpage in your area and see if he has been soliciting men for sex. Just look at the dates you were away and possibly a day or two prior as he may have been trying to get a "hook-up" set up ahead of time. Lots of totally freaky guys, some married looking for bizarre thngs. Good luck to you. Bad situation.

Answer 4

Sounds like a personal problem! lol, It may be a possible event to take place, but would only come from some urge in his sub-conscious to do so. In other words, he may of been unaware when he put them on, but there's an underlying need or attraction to do so. Hope this helps. Happy New Year

Answer 5

He likes to wear your undies... he did not sleepwalk. Some men are like this...it doesn't affect anything other than his private time. He is probably totally hetero, totally masculine, but a closet transvestite. If you love him, just accept it. He didn't choose to be this way. You could ignore it and maybe buy something in his size for him to 'find' if you don't like him stretching out your pretty things. It's just a sexual quirk, I suppose.

Answer 6

thats right down terrible, sorry about your luck..if you wouldn't have come back early from your trip none of this would have happened..on the serious side and i do beleive this is serious, he wasbn't sleep walking, he just screwed up and fell asleep.
it's all on you, you could try and get him to admit it but the truth ain't something thats going to make you feel a whole lot better...that's fast thinking the sleep walking, gotta give him some credit i reckon..he'll probably need some credit when you kick his pansy *** out the house..what color were they? sorry.. seriously i really feel for you, thats a tough one to come home to, don't know what else to say..if you can live with it..which i doubt, naw!..you gotta cut that one loose ..you ain't gonna get over this one..good luck, i'll be thinkin of ya.

Answer 7

Wow, I would have to say no. People usually dont remember sleepwalking, let alone to put on matching undies and bra! I think he has a fetish with it or maybe just wanted to see what it felt like?

Answer 8

well ,I think its kinda sweet,he obviously missed you and needed something to comfort himself with.
this is no different than say a women wearing her mans shirt to bed.
but to most of the world its not very manly to wear womens lingerie,so he had to make up a story.(that was quick thinking on his part.) kinda lame story though LOL
I would only have 2 problems with this behavior
1 He lied and 2. did he stretch my bra and panties out of shape?
but really if this is something he likes and it dont bother you why not?
Id make him buy his own though.
lol lol slol
peace ><>

Answer 9

Crossdressing for many men is exciting - most are just afraid to let their spouse or partner find out. Don't embarrass him too much as this may cause resentment and depression on his part. This is a sexual activity he enjoys and perhaps something you two should explore together. Otherwise, he will remain a "closet crossdresser".

Answer 10

I'd say he's pretty sharp for a sleepwalker. Apparently many men get off wearing women's lingerie...
If you're okay with it.... good... if not... figure out what the deal is here..
Was he embarrassed at all? or not?
That must have been some wake up scene!