I've experienced this now that I am in my early 20s and it has had some consequences.
2007-12-29 02:29:46 · 6 answers · asked by GilmoreGirls1 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes. I recommend that you talk out any and all of the abuse issues and problems with people you can trust. Feelings are energy and need to be released and expressed, if you keep them bottled up they typically will be released in a fury, which is not good. Over time you can and will release the stress and problems that you have been carrying and you will feel like a load has been lifted from you. May peace be with you.
2007-12-29 02:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I experienced physical and mental abuse along with molestation in childhood. I also suffered with an undiagnosed mental disorder for a long time. My father believed that these issues happened out there in the world and not in his family so I went untreated for a long time. I had to break the cycle when I had children. I saw what was happening and got counseling and after about 10 years of it I have realized that I have a strong character and I'm still standing and with what I have gone through that says a lot. I had some consequences along the way but my therapist helped me to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I would recommend a therapist and work on breaking the cycle of abuse so that you don't pass it down to your children. Good Luck.
2007-12-29 11:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mel M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Abuse of any kind towards children is dispicable, there are many forms of it, physical and corporal punishments, yelling (verbal abuse) degredations, discipline that is too harsh for what the child did, even disciplining (time outs) without explaining the reasons and the dangers of their actions is a form of abuse, because as parents we are to teach our children proper behavior and if you only discipline and don't explain why the child is being disciplined you just appear mean and unyielding, sometimes a chat is all that is required to rearrange a child's thinking on something, they do look up to their parents and want clear guidelines as to the expectations of their behavior. All children need this, to thrive, it makes them feel safe and loved and cared for.
About you, now that you know the cause of your anger you can now control it, it is not an excuse to lose your temper, and you can overcome it, and don't blame everything bad that happens and say it is because of it, really examine your own actions now, visit that child again and reassure it that no one can hurt it like that again, and make a promise to yourself and a prayer that you never treat anyone in the same manner, and this is the hardest part, forgive them, the ones who hurt you, otherwise your rage towards them will consume you and spill out into your life and you don't want to be that person... May God grant you the peace you seek.
2007-12-29 10:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine lasted from age 16 to age 50. It wasn't fun.
2007-12-29 10:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is why you need to have professional counseling so you don't continue to carry the baggage. Get rid of it. And yes, it is very common.
2007-12-29 10:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yupp.....
after listening to abusive words everyday......later after 10th class i started getting angry .......
but i control my self..........
why to get angry on people who dont know whats life..?
who dont have a better understanding like us....
let it go
2007-12-29 10:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋