I'm really confused right now, last night at a party me and my friend got pretty drunk, and on 3 or 4 occasions we kissed for long periods. Then when we went to the toilet together we got really close, kissing and what not. But this time she started to 'touch' me, and so i did the same for her. She kept whispering that she has been wanting me for so long....
I'm a bi/lesbian whereas she is straight, and so this makes me really confused as to whether she meant what she said and did...? We have made out before at annother party before..
I appologise to anyone who finds this confusing, i'm just so confused at the moment i just need some kind of advice of some sort.. thank you very much
2007-12-29 00:40:02 · 12 answers · asked by jadesaka 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
What she wispered you can believe: she wants you too.
2007-12-29 00:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by john c 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK, she might be curious but I once heard a straight girl say that being drunk is no excuse for kissing other girls. It just brings out in you what you really want to try but haven't got the courage to do. Also, if a girl always kisses oither girls when she is drunk then 'im straight but was just drunk' wears a bit thin, don't you think?
Girls who are facing real bisexuality and feelings get confused and can hide it, if they can't admit it to themselves, it isn't always the case that women are more open minded. Check out how many girls claim to be in straight on LGBT forums and refer to it as yuck, kae a point of being straight. Girls can be just as much in denial and repressed about it. Be careful with her, don't scare her away but talk to her. Also, how is she with you when she is sober?
2007-12-29 03:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by starburst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is pretty much typical. Sounds to me like she is just curious, but not necessarily looking for a relationship with a woman. Talking to her when she is sober sounds like a good idea to me, make sure it's somewhere private where no one else can intrude on your personal moment together.
Also, going to the toilet together drunk to make out sounds pretty yucky... try to avoid situations like that if you can next time.
And if in the end she just wants to 'try' being with a woman, then you can be the one to show her what it's all about!
Good Luck!!!
2007-12-29 01:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by Steph 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since there was a lot of alcohol involved, i'd be very careful if i were you. alcohol tends to make people very uninhibited, and there's a strong possibility that she really is interested in you, but was too timid to try anything sober. on the other hand, it could just be that she was drunk...
i suggest you try sitting her down and discussing how you feel, preferably while you both are sober. it may be hard, but try not to make her feel cornered because that may cause her to clam up and deny everything. just let her know that you're not judging her and that you're there for her, and the truth is bound to follow eventually.
2007-12-29 02:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by somesoul2keep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask her! find out what her true feelings are. I think that she is very curious and I think it's up to you to bring her out of the so called closet. if she is telling you she wants you than chances are she does so go set her down and talk about it. but remember friends than lovers can wind up not being friends anymore so if you really want her as a lover think about it first or what the hell go get her drunk again and have some fun xoxo Jessi
2007-12-29 01:37:04 · answer #5 · answered by pantiesfromus2u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well her being drunk means that you shouldn't really trust her. Personally I would just ask her if she meant it, when she is sober that is. Otherwise you will never find out what she really thinks, and just because she is straight, or at least says she is, it doesn't mean she can't fancy you.
Good Luck
*Angel*
2007-12-29 01:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by *Angel* 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be carefull, you both are women. Do you really know what the different woman and man that the only God creates only man and women only ?
Sorry, for this ... I could give you advice except you may go to spiritualities expert or phsycologs.
2007-12-29 01:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
best to keep friends as friends, not unless you really want to give it a try. But you really need to talk to her sober.
2007-12-29 01:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by LyndseyGetsLucky 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is straight...
but at any rate, talk to her when alcohol isn't involved and see what happens..
2007-12-29 00:47:03 · answer #9 · answered by Wayne 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2n choices leave him or forget about the tape both are hard but yours only
2016-05-27 17:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋