I've know this guy for a year and we have been messing around for 5 months now on and off and I fell in love with him and he says he likes me but he hasn't asked me out yet. we haven't been clear on where we stand right now like if we are just friends or friends with benefits.I don't know if he is just playing with ma feelings and I am just a bootycall to him. I haven't told him that I love him just that I like him a lot and I lost my virginity with him in the begining. he usually calls me everyday but he stopped callin for more than a month now but we keep in touch over the internet. please help me by answering my question thanks!
2007-12-28 23:16:45 · 11 answers · asked by traviesa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds as though he has lost interest in you, but you can still ask him forthrightly, "Where do we stand?" Take it from there.
2007-12-28 23:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by Signor Spaghetti 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh goodness. My guess is that you're fairly young.. high-school maybe? If a high-school boy has 1) stopped calling 2) hasn't asked you out and 3) never talked about any type of committment in a relationship.... then forget him, because anything that he says will be to either keep you from never talking to him again (so he can make his bootycall again), or to keep you from opening you mouth so whoever it is he's messing with these days doesn't find out about you.
Don't dwell. Sorry you lost your virginity to a guy that stopped calling you. If you REALLY want to find out what's going on... I'm sure you can figure out a way through friends, or friends of friends, to know what (or who) he's doing when he's not with you.
2007-12-29 07:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by phonetick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just using you. He probably stopped calling you because he is seeing someone else or just dating around. Maybe he is uncertain where you two stand as well. If you are desperate, you should have a talk with him to discuss your status. Otherwise, wait three months and start seeing others in the meantime. It could be just infatuation. If so, it should be over within three months. If you still feel the same after seeing others after three months, then you should let him know.
2007-12-29 07:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by Dream Dancer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are just a bootycall! All women before marriage are just a bootycall!
Why don't women understand the simple fact that before you get married you are a bootycall? He will tap the next woman he is attracted to because he is not comitted to you!
2007-12-29 07:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ransom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to break it to you, but I've seen many times girls get taken advantage of for something like this, and it all turns out in tears. He got what he wanted, and he isn't decent enough to tell you that he really doesn't like you. Just let him go, there are other, better guys than him. I don't even bother with dating cause I got hurt by a guy in the past then realized that guys aren't worth it, thank goodness we never even got close to kissing
2007-12-29 07:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find someone who really likes/loves you. He is obviously using you when he fancies. If you love someone, you would want to see that person as often as possible and let you know how you feel.
I think you know this already, but just wanted someone to confirm it to you.
Jim
2007-12-29 07:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for his next call for sex. Ask him for your status in his life. What is the value of your relation in his life? What does he like in you? see his expressions while he answers your Questions. You are woman and every Woman has sixth sense for men. Don't compromize with reality. If he has no feelings for you and using you just for sexual satisfactions, Plz forget him and search new friend. but if you are also interested in sexual satisfaction than carry on all of this.
good luck for next call.
2007-12-29 07:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The way of having a man is not by sex and obviously he just likes you for sex not for something else.
If he would like you for something else he would of told you, he has had enough time for it. WAKE UP!!!
2007-12-29 07:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by C6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You worked it all backwards. You gave him sex which was his primary goal. Now YOU want love and he's like, 'Oh puhleeeeez!" He's not the guy for you. Forget about it.
2007-12-29 07:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by DeFreeze 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's just making booty calls to you if you ask me you played into it girlfriend.Now only you can stop it.
2007-12-29 07:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by Robin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋