Inability to cope with the talents and prosperity of others, and tendency to compare with others.
2007-12-28 23:58:07
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answer #1
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answered by Ishan26 7
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Comparison is the root cause of jealousy.
Somebody is above you -- that hurts. That keeps you fighting, struggling, moving by any means possible, because if you succeed nobody cares whether you have succeeded rightly or wrongly. Success proves you are right; failure proves that you are wrong. All that matters is success, so any means will do. The end proves the means right. So you need not bother about means -- and nobody does bother. The whole question is how to climb on up the ladder. But you never come to the end of it. And whosoever is above you is creating jealousy in you, that he has succeeded and you have failed.
2007-12-29 03:39:18
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answered by ? 5
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At the very root of all jealousy is fear.
Fear of losing status
fear of rejection
the amount of ones fear is in direct proportion to ones feelings of self worth.
someone who is insecure about themselves and unsure about their worth will be dependant upon how others veiw them.
all of their relationships and accomplishments are pillars that hold UP their self worth if these are threatend by outside influences fears of losing that which is the core of their worth flares up and jealousy ensues.
peace><>
2007-12-29 04:52:20
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answered by matowakan58 5
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Jealousy is many times led to via low self-properly worth or self image. ): the effort-free equation is that our total international is filtered via our concept filters. If we've a foul self image, or don't sense exceedingly approximately ourselves then our filters are corrupt. issues we see on the outdoors are replaced and our emotional reactions are lost. as an occasion, if we are deeply hooked on our fans interest, love, and admiration, yet sense that we don't deserve it for in spite of reason, we can start to agonize approximately her leaving us or shifting on, then jealousy starts off to kick in. wish this helped :)
2016-11-26 00:37:28
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answered by ? 4
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it depends on what is the subject of jealousy it could be towards your sweetheart then that is what you call jealousy out of having mistrust and if its on work then that is the jealousy that says why cant i have the same thing as what boss gave her or him it depends on the subject and it depends on who is getting jealous
2007-12-28 23:10:56
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answer #5
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answered by Brandy_drinker 3
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I think it is primarily a lack of self-esteem. One with proper self-esteem wouldn't feel jealous... instead he/she would want to equal or excel the envied quality or possession of the object person who is considered superior on that count.
2007-12-28 23:10:22
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answer #6
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answered by small 7
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Memories of hurt and the insecurity that follows.
2007-12-28 23:10:09
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answer #7
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answered by amiamas1 1
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The need to feel special
2007-12-28 23:09:54
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answered by Vinh 3
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either of the two factors: envy and love of self. envy because you feel another person has what you don't have, and love of self because you love yourself enough to feel that another person belongs only to you.
2007-12-28 23:25:35
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answered by ocean deep 5
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For me, a want and a need for something.
2007-12-29 05:04:51
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answer #10
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answered by Anonymous
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