aaaaaaaaaa...my hubby has nt been faithful to me anytime,till nw ! I've profe of it!its nt any single girl bt its th CGs,he goes occasionally even nw. I loved him but got nothing in return in last 8yrs! But,best part is tht i ve 2 kids frm him who r my life nw!sm 3yr back a friend of his got closer to me and tdy our bond has become so strong tht he is doing everything to get me in his life.also to add, my kids love him as much as i do.Now we jst see our goal tht we will join 4ever.i'm happy and determined.wht do u say about my husband?to what extent am i wrong towards him??plz tell..
2007-12-28 22:41:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
CG mean "call girls"
2007-12-28 22:52:28 · update #1
kids r too small,but th elder one whos 5 is mad after my boyfriend. she says'i dont like dad,i like tht uncle'
2007-12-28 22:56:35 · update #2
i am in a similar situation as you (ur messages isn't as hard to understand as ppl are making it...) if you really do love this man, and he loves you too, and your kids are great with him and vise versa (because your kids liking/loving him is also VERY *VERY* important), then do it and do it right. Divorce your husband (he's a dead beat anyway) and be with this man.
good luck!
2007-12-29 02:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by Tapanga 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't love him? He cheats with callgirls? You have a boyfriend. Your kids like the boyfriend. Do they want to move in with him too or is that just wishful thinking on your part? Does your husband know about any of this? You will have to let the kids see him regularly after you've gone - but I'd say what's holding you back?
2007-12-28 22:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by chris n 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hopefully your not cheating, you'd be as bad as your husband... But if he does not respect you and you love another, then do it right....Divorce your jerk husband and be with the man who makes you happy. But go through the Right Steps... Divorce, then go with this guy.And don't worry out your hubbys feeling because he's just neglected your for the past 8 years
2007-12-28 22:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know the saying: "two wrongs don't make a right"? well, its true, you and your husband are both wrong.
it is unhealthy for both of you, and especially the kids, to be in an unhappy family, and you are both setting a bad life model for your children.
cheating on each other is only going to stir the pot and make things worse.
2007-12-28 22:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by Fluffington Cuddlebutts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't you think you r doing the same thing your hub. is doing wid u? pls. confront him before taking any action. try to talk to him then decide wats best for ur family don't rush up .i know 8 yrs is along time but these matters need to b handeled delicately & sensitively.Better prevent & prepare then repent and repair.
2007-12-28 22:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by life's lyk dat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 06:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave your husband and your boyfriend. Focus on your kids. They need to have one parent who is acting responsibly and setting an example for them.
2007-12-28 23:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by shar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you seem to have moved forward with another person because your hubby was unfaithful, better go ahead with the other person.
2007-12-28 22:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by Cooooool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great .If you feel well, that is good.Life is only one,live in your own ways.Happiness is the main thing.
2007-12-28 22:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its difficult to read what you're trying to say because of all of your codes. sorry. maybe you can re-do this question.
2007-12-28 22:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by volkgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋