my BF wants it too much =( what should I do?

Question

I'm 17.I only had sex once with my ex..
Now I have a 24 y/o Boyfriend..And..It's like he wants me to have sex with him everyday..So we do it..Uh not everyday, but ALMOST everyday..And it's kinda scary!
On my last questions, the answerers told me that it's not bad for my health, and some of them said it's too much since I'm 17..
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Am I wrong to date him in the first place, since he's much older than me? What should I do?

Answer 1

Maybe he is too old for you love....I am 20 y/o and even I find 24 y/o guys a bit too old ^^;; Anyway, maybe if his advances are scaring you, you should break off the relationship. I don't want to sound rude or anything...but your BF probably thinks you will be easy cos you are young and all...which isn't a good thing...my last BF was similar...all he wanted was sex...I told him no, and never heard from him again - we had a long distance relationship.

So yeah....Its probably best to break up with him...take a break, and look for a guy more closer to your age.

Best of luck

Answer 2

Physically unless it is rough or causing you pain etc then it is not bad for your health or too much or anything.

It seems like the issue here is mental/emotional. You say it scares you, and you don't even know if you should be dating him or not...sounds like you are in a manipulative, potentially abusive relationship, and also possibly illegal depending on the laws where you live. You have to put your foot down. Either tell him when you don't want to have sex, or dump him. I suspect he wouldn't hang around if you refused him the sex, which would give you a clear signal about his intentions. While physically there is nothing wrong with sex almost every day, it sounds like this relationship isn't healthy you are being forced into sex you don't want.

Answer 3

I don't know any details but it's really hard to see what a 24 year old man has in common with someone still in high school. PLEASE be very careful if you do have alot of sex. Make sure to use condoms because i can guarantee that if he's with a 17 yr old then he defiantly wont be there if you just happen to get pregnant

if you tell him that that is too much sex for you to handle and he doesn't understand and keeps pressuring you then find someone else. You still have a long time to look for Mr right!

Answer 4

well i think is fine. you need to understand that guys at that age want to do it everyday and manytime per day. is totally normal AS LONG AS YOU ARE OK WITH IT AND AS LONG AS YOU ENJOY WHAT U DO IN BED. Now about the age diffencens. If you were a virgin I would say that you should probably want to stop seing him becuase he is older and becuase that can cause a trauma becuase you are just 17 and he is 24 and you might want a guy that is closer to you age so you can both experience inteded of learning to fast from your bf but know you are not a virgin ( not a bad thing) so just go aheag and if you enjoy sex dont worry about it and learn from him because practice makes perfection... best of luck and practice safe sex...

Answer 5

Firstly, you have to think about the good things and the bad things.

Ask yourself: What am I doing this for?
Who am I doing this for?
Why am I doing it for that person?
Is this good or bad for me?

I'm not saying sex is bad. Goodness, sex is a gift from God! Of course, it isn't bad to have sex. Although to have sex at such an age is quite risky because you may get pregnant if you do not use protection. Even if you do, it's not guaranteed 100% that you will be protected.

Think and then, take action. If you are liking it, I suggest you take tremendous caution or rather don't do it at all. If you are not liking it, I suggest you talk to your boyfriend and tell him to have some self-control until you have reached a certain age where you would be able to take care of yourself and also take responsibility for what you do.

God bless :)

Answer 6

if you aren't enjoying it everyday then it is too much. If you have just started going out then he will slow down. I would suggest you talk to him though, tell him you feel like it's too much, if he takes it badly then he is not the man for you. Other than that start not being available quite so much, go on dates with groups of people and then go straight home (not to his place) slow things down a bit that way. Relationships are about more than sex.

Answer 7

Any age difference greater than a year at your age is truly huge due to the different experiences that the older will have.

It would only be bad for your health to get pregnant, or a disease. but, if this is an issue for you, as it seems to be as you are posting on it, I sense the relationship is out of balance and maybe that is part of the problem... What do you really want?

Answer 8

It's not going to hurt you physically but if you just don't feel right about doing it as much as you do then don't. It's your body and you are allowed to say how often and with whom. Try and do other things with him like go out for tea or the movies, a walk, etc. If he just wants to spend all the time in bed, it might be that he is just interested in you for sex. Go with your gut and do what feels right.

Answer 9

I think sex everyday is way to much especially at your age he's making sex into a house chore rather than it being special and exciting don't be afraid to tell him no sometimes as i feel he is taking advantage of you because of your age!

Answer 10

The age thing aside, it's clear you're both looking for different things in the relationship.

You want love, affection, someone who'll listen, who'll be there for you, and care about you no matter what.

It sounds like what he wants is a pretty girl who'll lay back and smile any time he asks.

You deserve a LOT better, go find it.