was astrange expierence i was playing with my friends it was a hide&seek game there was this guy called bablu he and myself hid in one small hut it was dark and nobody was there to scare hi i just a hiising noise he got scared and screamed after some time i smelt some foul smell so idecided to leave that hut icalled this fellow out with me but he refusedand he started crying i got confused and calledmy other friends they also called him out he still refused then we called his mother she came near and slapped him hard . one of my friend send that he shat in his pants and was it after that that fellow never played with us though it was a joke to my friends iwas very much disturbed for many days well please tell me where it was wrong and well do such behaviour effects some person in their
long run in life
2007-12-28 19:33:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I feel that the whole reason he was so frightened ( Bablu) is that, even though there was no way you could have known, he had been previously frightened badly by a snake which had slithered into his home. he thought he heard that snake again, and that is why he lost control of his bodily functions.
This happens to us human beings due to fear reflex; if he remembers as he grows older, he will learn that and be able to overcome the embarrassment of it. I have seen strong and brave soldiers do this same action on fields of battle, and police on duty, many other incidents. The important thing is that it is something that we have no control over, nor should you mention it ever if he crosses your path again. No good can come of it to speak of such things now.
2007-12-30 18:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by locked_andloaded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It affects only if you hold on to it.The incidence just happened without conscious intention to hurt and sooner you shrug it off and look up or do something to get bigger and greater experience in life and move towards greater and inner satisfaction, then, better it is for your past to simply fade away on its own. Replace bigger with the petty,you will be on the move to the higher!
2007-12-30 17:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by Thimmappa M.S. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some behaviors do effect someone in their life. everything that happens always has some sort of effect.
2007-12-28 19:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by seductive_k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why of course he was embarresed and his mother knew so she should have asked u guys to leave and done this quitley.people ...
2007-12-28 19:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-12-28 22:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by cmurugesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont be affecting in the long run. but in childhood it happens to some children.
2007-12-28 19:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by chidambaram k 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
monkeys thorw their poop
2007-12-28 19:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋