My husband is an illegal immigrant and he constantly tries to start an argument with me to start a fight. I am so sick of it anymore I want him to move out but he refuses. I would move but I am the who does all the responsibilites of owning a house, i write in the bills, call some one if i need to fix or make improvements to my house, take care of our child. he doesnt do none of that except for making me feel like his b***h. what are some good ideas. I think i know the answer why he won't go, but please tell me what you think about why he won't move and stop all the arguing with me.
2007-12-28 18:27:49 · 14 answers · asked by tootie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The people who are telling you to call immigration are zenophobic idiots. ICE has bigger fish to fry. Contact your local legal aide in your area and seek info. on disso. Most states will not permit you to get a protection order against someone because they are annoying. There has to be an imminent threat of physical harm. There are plenty of websites that can get you started on the process for disso. and you can research the laws re: this situation.
Good luck.
2007-12-28 18:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by jen 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First whose name is on the house's rental or mortgage. If it is only you then all you should have to do is call the cops and they should be able to make him move out. Or call the immigration and report him. Or you could even get a restraining order on him for terrorist threats on your life and that you are afraid of your life because he threatens you all the time. You will have to go to court probably, but it would be worth it if you can get him out, because it sounds like he wants to be a deadbeat husband and let you handle all the responsibilities. He is still a boy, not a man. I hope the ideas I gave you helps. Or you can even go to a woman's shelter and they will protect you. If you are afraid for your life then go to a woman's shelter.
2007-12-29 07:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by Connie D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you may desire to communicate on your husband and tell him that that's a severe situation. upload up all the greater suitable expenditures that the brother is costing you and show your husband. that would desire to place a sprint pep in his step. additionally, comprehend that it extremely is no longer in basic terms your husband that's permitting them to use you adult adult males yet you're too. it is your living house and you have some say so additionally. i might tell your husband that if he does not tell his brother in 2 days then you definately will. you won't be in a position to enable this pass on any further. You adult adult males at the instant are not assisting him in basic terms allowing him. you are going to be able to desire to end worring approximately an grownup and situation approximately your person kinfolk. Down convey yourselves down for them. it could sound harsh despite the fact that it extremely is certainty. And next time, think of two times in the previous letting a kinfolk member pass in. probability is that if he mandatory to pass in with you adult adult males interior the 1st place then he wasn't dealing with company in any case.
2016-10-09 08:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by curcio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where would he go ? Your house may be the only place he has ... plus, he has it pretty good there.
Report him to the authorities for being illegal.
Also - ask the law to remove him from you house because he is a trouble-maker. Then change your locks - and have a Restraining Order put on him.
2007-12-28 18:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call I. C. E.
1-866-347-2423
2007-12-28 18:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can simply report him as an illegal and maybe someone will come an haul him away? i'm not sure how that works.
if you are married, but separating, a husband and wife usually have rights to remain in the marital home, unless a judge orders one or the other to find another place to live.
hope it works out.
2007-12-28 18:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
idk if you 2 being married would put a monkey wrench in it but if i were you i would see if you could get immigration on him, and you could also try calling the police on him if he is being abusive, and they can take him away and get immigration on him too, and if you can get him gone i would find a way to sell my house, get another job and move as far away as i could so he would not be able to find me, as for why he won't go you know the answer to that, you are his golden goose, and his sugar momma, another idea is to file for divorce and have him evicted, and contact immigration, hope this gives you some ideas
2007-12-28 18:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by Dale T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the migras. That should get him out of your hair. Or, get a separation order; contact your local police department for help with this. Once you have the paperwork in order, you can change the locks -- but not until then.
2007-12-28 18:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw him out, pack his things and sit it outside, lock the door, call the police and tell them you are putting him out because of abuse. He will have to leave, he won't have a choice..Tell the officers that if he don't leave you alone you will have no other choice but to come in and in a restraining order. . .I threw mine out about 6 years ago, and ain't seen him since. . .
2007-12-28 22:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move. You can't make someone move out of the house unless it's a harm to you or yours.
2007-12-28 18:44:14 · answer #10 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋