I've been attempting to orgasim for quite sometime. I've only once came close. it's causing me and my partner frustration, is it normal for me to not be able to? he has said he could get his past partners easy, and I'm the only difficult one. any advice? i was thinking possibly my body wasn't ready or something. i've tried on my own but it didn't work. [We're 18] we're not having sex, but earlier i had said i didn't feel an orgasim, but i came. he was wondering if maybe i skipped it. it that possible?
2007-12-28 18:05:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I can't orgasm with penetration alone... I have to have some sort of stimulation... Try having him rub your clitoris while you're having sex... it does wonders... And like someone else said, stressing about it just adds to the problems... try to let go and not think about trying to achieve orgasm... just relax and eventually it will happen...
2007-12-28 18:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by katiekatiemeowmeow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The body lubricates during sex, so you "coming" may have just been your natural lubrication rather then actual release. Try and relax during sex. A woman's biggest sexual organ is her mind and we have to be in the right state of mind to reach climax. Often women can not orgasm through penetration only and need a little stimulation help. Experiment with touching yourself during sex, have your partner touch you, experiment with different forms of foreplay and then sex. Often women try too hard to reach orgasm and over think the process. Good luck!
2007-12-28 19:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in basic terms so which you're sparkling.... not ingesting will take months to make you bypass a era. In additon, with the intention to do it precise you would be too drained and lathargic to do something in case you're away anyhow. in basic terms use tampons like something of the international or get your self on Depo delivery administration (hate that stuff) and in the journey that your dumb adequate to contemplate not ingesting in basic terms to bypass a era you in basic terms may well be lol. individually i might in basic terms take the era. Gotta love tampons lol. i discovered it complicated to apply tampons besides in the initiating. Your maximum suitable wager is to attempt squatting and putting them interior the bathe while your not on your era till you get it. That way there isn't any gross blood or something to handle.
2016-12-11 15:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'd know if you had one... try different things by yourself... not everyone likes the same thing... when you find out what works for you... incorporate it into the bedroom...
and one last thing... don't stress so much about it... if it becomes a "big thing" in your mind... that will only cause further problems
2007-12-28 18:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by DrV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem, i think its just we dont get an orgasm just but fingering or such we actuallly have to do the deed but i have no clue, oh ond to try to get urself to, try the hot tub jets the furkin amazing:)))
2007-12-28 18:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by Amber N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋