can't be happy...?
2007-12-28 18:01:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Here's a good example: I used to have very good online female friend. Recently, I tried to reconnect with her and decided I'd leave the next move up to her, if there was a next move to be made. Well, she's online right now and so am I and she knows it and yet she won't contact me. What the hell's the use...?
2007-12-28 18:05:27 · update #1
Maybe she's chatting with someone, working on her computer etc ...
Don't assume anything in life Larry .. it can lead to a lot of unnecessary stress. They say there is someone for everyone in this world, and I think that holds true. You may find her tonight, tomorrow, or 3 years from now. For now, just enjoy the life you've been blessed with. You know, I used to have your outlook on life ... until I got cancer and took a walk through the children's cancer ward. Those little ones haven't even begun to live, yet, they're dying. Be thankful Larry. Wishin' you all the very best in '08. :)
2007-12-28 18:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Carol♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to sound rude, but you need to stop playing the victim. People are not mind readers. If you want to take it to the next level with a women, you need to speak up. I've had guys from highschool tell me now, 10 years later, that they had a crush on me back then. A couple of them, I would have dated if I would have known they were interested, but I had no idea.
You need to love yourself before others can love you as well. It's hard to gain confidence, but it is something that you can learn. You need to focus on your positive qualities and go from there. e.g. if you're a good guitar playing, why not play at an open mic night. If you're a good singer, go belt out some tunes at a karaoke bar. If you have a good sense of humour, woo a girl with your jokes.
Another example, I'm a horribly bad dancer, but break out into silly dances that usually have people in stitches from laughing. For me, I laugh at myself and that's what keeps me going. I know I'm a kook and I run with that.
2007-12-29 02:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by mookie_carson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you kill yourself here, everyone is looking at this very nervously because it look like you're thinking about suicide and no one want to leave a message saying the wrong thing.
anyway, try reconnecting with your family and friends face to face first before you go on to myspace or facebook and have a potentially bad experience. Also, you can never be certain about anything on the internet, so don't take everything you read seriously. your ladyfriend could be someone else entirely, like some con artist trying to get money out of you.
to summerize: stick to reality first on the whole "reconnecting with people" before you start looking for romance on the net.
2007-12-29 02:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres your problem, you have online friends (thats ok i have a couple). but they shouldnt be your closest friends; if you stay inside and go on your computer all day then you can't connect with people, unless someone happens to show up at your house. go to social places like bars or gyms or whatever. even if you take a jog outside for 30 minutes every day, it'll envigorate you and make feel good, and you might meet some interesting people on the way. when you're at supermarkets, take the time to just chat with some people. even if its just a simple "i like your shirt."
2007-12-29 02:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, don't sit there moping please go out and get a life while you are young. There are girls out there and one is for you, You may lose another girl or two in the real world, but there are still lots to live for. like walking or running in the park. going out for a drink with your mates. give a party get some guys and girls together for a drink or a meal. Join a club. I am in a wheelchair and connected to oxygen and I am not ready to quit yet (just got over recent heart attack), so why are you ? Go on sweetheart get out of the doldrums and have some fun PLEASE!
2007-12-29 02:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to learn how to connect, read up on how to utilize communication skills.
Talking to this woman is your only way to happiness? Think again !!! Maybe she feels too much pressure from you and your neediness.
Make a new friend instead of hanging on to the past. People who try to be happy even when they are not, are far more attractive then people who have to suck life from others to survive.
2007-12-29 02:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't focus yourself on one person. Go out and see the world, is it because maybe your not social? Its not hard really. Where are your favorite spots you like to hang out at? I'm sure the people there have the same thing in common with you because their also there. The important part is being yourself destiny will play its role.
2007-12-29 02:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by Noel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "connect"? You seem very clouded. What do yo mean about not "connecting with women"? You seem a bit hopeless based on your statement. However, I feel that you need to explain what you mean. Rephrase the question.
2007-12-29 02:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by Dollyrocker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club...there is no point in living...you just do.
2007-12-29 02:07:27 · answer #9 · answered by notsonormalgrl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres a lot of fish in the sea
2007-12-29 02:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by Donna Rules 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋