I have big "lips" down there and im worried it is going to turn my bf off he says nothing could ever change how he feels about me but i just dont know im very self conscious about it. do you think it will change anything?.....
2007-12-28 17:22:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I'd bet money that it wouldn't. I've talked to guys about everything there is to discuss about what makes women attractive to us, and not a single one ever said "her lips were too big."
Now some guys over the years bragged about how big their GFs were, if he's of the same way of thinking he'll love you even more.
Don't worry, you'll be fine.
2007-12-28 21:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys love the visual so your generous labia is likely a turn on.
Your bigger problem is the worry/anxiety. This will drive him away.
Find a therapist and try to understand some of these low self-esteem feelings. Getting over this will make you very attractive.
2007-12-29 01:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by Grumpy Mac 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i can assure you that is one of the LAST thing a guy thinks about! Im sure if you actually compared your 'lip size' to other women you will find they are quite normal. I wouldn't worry so much about it (and if your bf leaves you due to vaginal lip size then you're better off without him)
2007-12-29 01:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by Carla S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the truth is men really dont notice the things that girls tend to worry about. besides big "lips" wouldnt change his feelings for you if they are real. he sounds like a nice guy and u should trust he will love u for all of who u are. lips included.
2007-12-29 01:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by DCMitch 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-12-31 01:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by Smart Nurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all different and we are all beautiful. If your being "big" down there turns him off, it wasn't much of a relationship to begin with. Such things are so not important!
2007-12-29 01:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by HelpIzOnTWay 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
please get into therapy. your lack of esteem will ruin your life more than it has already.
how do you know that you have "big lips" what is your rate of comparison? did some a**hole tell you you did?
the greatest lesson in life is to learn to have self love. it is not an easy lesson to learn. i wish you goo dluck.
you can contact me to do that... that is what i help people with DAILY. and i am extremely good at it.
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2007-12-29 01:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by charlton_g_w 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
men do NOT worry about these things when they're down there. they have other things on their minds. you're fine. this is so cliche but all vaginas look different and there's nothing wrong with any of them.
2007-12-29 01:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by courtney . 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not care, not would most guys care about your big lips.
If for some reason he cares at ALL, then he is not a good guy, and you shouldn't be with him anyways. he is not good enough for YOU.
2007-12-29 01:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he already says its ok, wats the big deal? if he really cares, he'll stay there with u.
2007-12-29 01:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋