How can i find out who am I and what do I want?

Question

I am a normal girl ,that really wants to help others by becoming a doctore and helping poor people to be cured .The problem i can't find my real self .I have a lot of questions like .Can I do it?Can I really succed ?Do I have the ability to do it ?Will I fail badly? ( I am a senior and goign to college next year). I can never trust my self .Waht can i do?.I always look negativly at myself .PLEASE HELP .AT the same time I do know what I should really be .I need to find an identy

I don't know what i want to be
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Answer 1

Finding out who you are is a long proccess usually, but don't worry, you'll figure it out. But you want to be a doctor right? All you need now is to stop doubting yourself. Perhaps put yourself smaller goals and focus on achieving those goals, it will give you confidence in your abilities and help you keep going.

Answer 2

You just got to think positive. Be confident in your decisions and try not to 2nd guess yourself. You want to help people by becoming a doctor and helping the poor. What kind of doctor? Find out exactly what you want to do who you want to help and do it. You can do it just so long as you want to. You can succeed if you work past the limits. You might fail badly but that won't be the end of it, you need to pick yourself back up and continue. Your identity, you must find by asking yourself the questions and answering them.

Answer 3

More people should be like you...wanting to help others. Put the feeling of failure behind you and say to yourself that you are going to succeed. There is no reason why you can't succeed in the medical field. You might consider becoming a nurse first. They are in big demand right now. Everyday you say to yourself, " I will have a new future, I will make the grade, I will succeed and have a life of helping others because they need me."

Answer 4

1. do not look inward, look outward to things you can change and make things better for people.

2. you can do it.

3. the more good you do, the happier you will be.

4. the only people who dont fail once in a while are people who do nothing (couch potatoes). nothing wrong with failing, as long as you try your best.

5. when you get to college next year, find people that have a common goal that you find interesting, and work together with them. team spirit is a great feeling.

Answer 5

Going away to college and studying and learning and living are the only way you will answer these questions! You need to stop worrying--all things in there time. Give yourself a little time to learn who you really are!