me and my b/f have been talking about having sex and he also told me that he couldn't use condomes b/c thay gave him a rash so he asked me to go on birthcontrol so i asked my mom and she said no and i told my b/f and he said that was ok he'll be carful but on day i was over at his house and i seen that he had about 4 or 5 porn mag under his bed and there was a box of opend condoms and it was a box of 12 and there was 5 left so should i believe him when he tells me that they give him a rash
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his mom is single and his dad died and he had a brother but he is 9 and his sisters are 7&12 so i dont think thay would u them and i did find 3 of the comdoms under his bed and thay were used but thay were in the box and the rapers were in there too he did tell me that when he was 13 and 14 he did look at porn but i know that he dont have them condoms from when he was 13 and 14 they still had sprem on them or something yes they were laytex that is wat he told me gave him a rash
2007-12-28 16:04:45 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im 16 and he is 17 we have been going out for 1 1/2 years
2007-12-28 16:06:04 · update #1
please please please don't have sex with him. I know you won't listen to a stranger on the internet...but if there is any chance that you do, please listen to me. DO NOT have sex with this boy. I know you have it made up in your mind that you want to and I know nothing I say is going to change your mind as I said before. But wait! Wait for marriage and it makes it so much more special. And you are only 16 and you have so many more years ahead of you. Don't worry about sex now...I can't stress that enough. Save yourself.
2007-12-28 16:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by PANDABEAR 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I would say he's allergic to a chemical in the condom, the latex perhaps?
Protection is essential when having sex. Tell him if he wants to have sex to wear a condom, end of story.
If he is telling the truth and condoms do give him a rash, ask him to research the matter (he may need to try different condoms, he may be allergic to something in the condom, he may be using it incorrectly, he may have expired condoms meaning there isn't enough lubricant which leads to a rash). There could be tons of reasons, and if he wants to have sex like I know he does tell him to find out why and fix the problem.
Also it wouldn't be bad if you went on birth control (and he still wore a condom). I would suggest you use some intense reasoning (ask her if she wants to inadvertantly contribute to the growing number of teen pregnancies by not supplying her child, who is going to have sex either way, with birth control). Just say something that will get her to give in! Oh and make your boyfriend where a condom.
2007-12-28 16:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by FickelFascination 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might be cheating and could possibly have an STD. Talk to him about the cheating thing and if you are going to have sex, get tested for STDs. If the condoms give him a rash, switch brands. Latex free condoms do exist.
2007-12-28 17:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by Erica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, be careful! If you are going to have sex, make sure that he wears a condomn!!! This will not only protect you from getting pregnant but it could save your life. If you have already found a half empty box of condemns in his room, I would be very worried that he is not being faithful!!! He may not have anything but someone that he was with could have something! Please be careful! Also, why is he wearing a condomn while looking at porn? That does not make any since at all! I am really worried for you! My best advice to you is to not have sex at all! You are only 16! You could very well mess up your life! Please think long and hard about what I have written you.
2007-12-28 16:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by julie w 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way should you have un-protected sex.
Get some latex free condoms. If he still refuses to use them, leave.
If he has a half box of condoms - he has been having sex with someone else and you DONT want un-protected sex with him.
Porn - that is normal. He thinks about sex every 20 minutes and masturbates to porn. This is normal and natural, but he will be self-conscious and deny it.
You are his girlfriend, not the keeper of his orgasms. It would be mean of a girl to not have sex with a guy, then deny him self relief.
2007-12-28 16:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by Grumpy Mac 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Come on atleast get to know him a little longer. 1 1/2 is nothin and 6 months from still not a long time. And there not a particuliar question so i can answer properly.
I hope this takes cake for best answer anyway
Bye best of luck for the new year.
2007-12-28 16:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by Rockstar222 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's a f*ckin liar. You have all your evidence right there. Most likely he'll still say he gets a rash. Tell him to get over the rash or its back to his hand. Dont take chances with unprotected sex. If he's getting rashes you don't know if its from the condoms of if its a disease.
2007-12-28 16:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by richard s 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think he's lying, they don't give him rashes!!!!! Like you said, they were obviously not from when he was 13 or 14 and I would be more worried about why he was using them in the first place...do you think he might have a chick on the side???
2007-12-28 16:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might have done that and kept useing them and then he relized that he had a rash and stop using them. So that might be jthe truth. But it might be a lieing just go right up to him and ask him for the truth and tell him don't lie. So no secrets. Hope I helped.
Kay Kay
2007-12-28 16:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i hope you didn't have sex with him
i'm 16, and no offense he sounds like an ***. He may have thought you guys were waiting too long. But i wonder if he was like practicing? like jacking off trying to get it right
because i mean the sperm, porn mags, like in bed?
possibly?
2007-12-28 16:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋