I fell like a total loser. I am a college freshman and in my first semester I managed to get a 3.7 GPA. I finally got a girlfriend who is 100% devoted to me. I started volunteer work at a local elementary school since I want to be a teacher and I will hopefully get a tutoring position soon. The only thing is I have never been to on on-campus party and I really feel like a loser becuase of it. I sometimes socialize with people, but most of the time i am studying. So do u think i am a loser?
P.S- I feel like i have no life
2007-12-28 15:13:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Of course you are not a loser you are a winner. You have a lot to bring to the table, you are in college, you have your girl, and you are pursuing a good career. Forget about partying just keep your head in them books because you could loose yourself at those parties and it is addictive so stick to studying and party later.
2007-12-29 10:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sunny Days 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Way! you have an awesome life! your talented in your academics and you have some one to share it with! your involved in the community and you know whats best in the long run. I do feel like sometime in your collage career you should go out and party! your only young once so have some fun once and a while. i know that studying is extremely important and you seem to understand that so as long as you keep the balance i think you will be good! Bring your girlfriend to a party with you! if you don't know other people talk to her and you can mingle as a couple and individually. also if your board the two of you can leave together and hang out somewhere else!
2007-12-28 23:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT a loser. You need to socialize with more people. Go to that party and have a great time. People who dedicate themselves to their studies and work hard to get good grades are NOT losers. They are very smart people who know where they want to go and what they want to do in their lives.
2007-12-29 00:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by coloradogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a loser. You are a person that is working hard towards your goals. You do need to get out more but there is nothing wrong with what you are doing. Your girlfriend and you should go out once in a while.
2007-12-29 00:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your a loser at all. You seem like your life is on the right track, and your girlfriend loves you, and you seem like a person who likes to help other people, which lots of people, think is really sweet. Your not a loser hun. :)
2007-12-29 00:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by bitchez n hoez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like u wanna live on the edge aye?
Just be confident and go to a party and do what you want. Your in college man if u dont want to study dont study(not saying u shouldnt. YOU CAN DO WHATEVER, amazing huh. mummy and daddys not there no more but i suggest you dont get wire drunk high a blah blah blah
P.S.- Your not a loser cuz really you didnt lose anything. But you arn't making your life very exciting..
2007-12-28 23:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by Rockstar222 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no, i dont think you're a loser. I am the same way. I'd rather be studying than at a party with a bunch of drunk losers.
2007-12-28 23:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by orlandob333 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you've got everything together, to me. If you haven't been to an on-campus party and you WANT to, then you probably need to schedule time for one just like you set aside time for studying.
Living on a campus, it's almost impossible to have "no life" unless you are actively avoiding it.
2007-12-28 23:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You may be a loser in some sense, but your the best kind of loser there is. Just do your thing. If you want to go to a party, go. But focus on what's important.
2007-12-28 23:18:06 · answer #9 · answered by Carimel 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
to be honest you sound like your bragging. I dont have any friends and i havent been invited to a party for at least a year but i dont feel like a loser. I know i am but i dont care.
2007-12-29 14:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by earthelement949 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋