Im 15 yrs old. and im not having as much as fun as i should be but other kids are having more fun than me?

Question

ts like the best years of my life im not living ot the fullest and i should be but i have moved alot and had to make new firends at every school i juss feel like im not an average kid i stay home all the time and play world of warcraft or play xbox live when i could be out doing something better but its like im not a normal kid because u see all these other kids going to parties and the movies and having fun taking myspac epics acting crazy and juss hanging out it juss seems i can nver do that stuff idk wut to do give me some advice i mean i play sophmore j.v. football and i have no problem talking to girls but idk wuts up

www.myspace.com/this_is_nuck1ng_futs

about the myspace part i meant i look at all these people myspace pics that are teenagers and there all having fun and wut not

Answer 1

Heya, you just need to start inviting people out more and be friendly. Ask your friends if they know about any parties and go and gate crash! :P

Answer 2

It could be an insight of your family 10-15years from now. Since your 15 yrs old it could also mean beware of your sexual activies because you can become pregnante if your not carful. Use protection (not to sound like a afterschool special) but life is hard enough with highschool and being 15 yrs. Why complicated things further by having a baby girl. Maybe that's what your dream telling you. good luck finding your answer.:)

Answer 3

i know exactly how you feel...well, actually i knew exactly how you feel.

i used to feel like this all the time: every weekend i'd be at home, online or rotting in front of the TV. after the weekend was over, everyone would be talking about how awesome their weekend was when i'd have nothing to say.

bottom line is that you need to become more confident. ask people to hang out with you: if you don't feel comfortable with just one person, ask a bunch and hang out with a group (as they say, the more the merrier!). also, it's a lot more fun to have an activity planned like hanging out at the mall or going to the movies rather than inviting them to hang out at home with you. try hanging out with a good friend at first, and then gradually invite that guy/girl you've been joking around with in class. trust me, the more confident/comfortable you act, the more fun you'll have in life :)

Answer 4

i feel ya lol i am exactly the same, except the xbox part. replace that with my computer. i move a lot too, it ******* sucks i know.. it's annoying too. dont worry bout that partying thing. i dont really care about it cus it seems like all the hs parties are about getting high and drunk. dont buy into that. now, THAT is not fun. it just shows how irresponsible you are. don't compare yourself to these people. and about the myspace thing, big deal! right? you don't need to take pictures of yourself to have fun lmao. that's for people who SERIOUSLY don't have fun. chillax, just sit back and enjoy life the way it is. i know sometimes it sucks, it's boring. but like the quote from harold & kumar, "life tends to unfold the way it should". so think bout that. look for the positives about your life and what you are good at...and establish something out of it. good luck to you :)

Answer 5

At 15 you will not be walking on the moon or dancing with the stars. you seem to define fun in relationship to what your peers are doing. Others my age are retired and raising grand-kids. They are fine with that. I'm just about finished my MS in counseling and I'm fine with that. How many kids would love to be able to play football? Many times people do things because they feel it will be fun but really they are doing these things because they feel they need to do these things to be cool and accepted. Average kids feel just as you do..sometimes confused and trying to find their way through life. Do not compare your life to others ..you are yourself and unique. You don't have to be acting crazy to have fun

Answer 6

regarding your question, i feel the fact you have had to
move so many times is why you are not having as much fun as you should.
after all, if someone stays in an area a long period of time
he will probably develope a lot of friends and have fun.
but when you have to move all of the time you simply
don,t have the time to make and develope a lot of friends.
i think you constantly having to move a lot is the answer to
your question and it has nothing to do with you, it is
circumstances well beyond your control.

Answer 7

anyone who says highschool is the best years of their lives never went to college ! dont worry you have plenty of time and in reality your friends arent having anymore fun than you. its when you graduate and look back is when you see how much fun you really had

Answer 8

do you even try to go out, SPEAK to people to make friends, becuse they are not just gonna come to you and say "well hey i dont know you but lets go out and have fun" even if you are moving all the time, you have to do your part if you want to be a "teen" and do all this stuff. ya know my teen years were hell and i didnt get to do all the fun stuff that teens usually do, but thank God i'm 21 becuase i hated my teen years. if you feel youre unnormal, then change yourself, becuase nobody else can do that but yourself.

Answer 9

Well according to your myspace, you have a girlfriend? Hang out with her more.

Answer 10

Just hang out with people more, go to party's and stuff like that!