my ex-husband has physical custody of one of our sons and i have the other one..well we both have joint legal custody of both the children...he wants to leave the state he lives in and let my son live with his friend in the state he is leaving..he told me i have no say in this because he has physical custody of this child..i told him yes i do ..so is he allowed to leave my son in the care of a friend of his to live while he resides in another state and i also live in another state...if he does leave my son with this person can i have him taken out of this home and sent to me since the father doesn't want him to live with him...
2007-12-28 14:31:20 · 13 answers · asked by pebbleshny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you can just drive to the child pick him up and take him with you because the 3rd party has no custody
2007-12-28 14:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by wantajeannie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is wrong on that. Both of you have to physically write out and sign and date a paper saying that this is ok with the both of you for your ex to leave your son with his friend. You will also have to get the paper notorized. This is the only legal way I know of without going to court.
2007-12-28 15:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by sasy_tabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
and this is why even though he may have full legal custody, his custody status can be changed and amended
remember the court only cares for the health of the child's best interest
not his nor yours
so take him back to court
2007-12-28 14:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to your lawyer and get sole custody of your child. I would not discuss this with the ex.
2007-12-28 14:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a lawyer. If you have legal custody he cannot make that kind of decision on his own.
2007-12-28 14:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by bethikinz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he cannot not. You are the child parent. And if he can No longer care for the child for whatever reason, then he and a judge will turn that child to the other parent.
2007-12-28 14:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by lynnn30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to alert the court system. I don't see any way that that can be within the custody guidelines.
Cheers
2007-12-28 14:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah P 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes u can get custody by abandonment. it is being done to the military people in service who have custody. though it doesnt make sense but in your case it would.
2007-12-28 14:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call your lawyer or the court house asap.
2007-12-28 15:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask an attorney asap
2007-12-28 14:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋