should i screw him or nottttt?

Question

so me and my bf are currently going outttt and we want to try the "thing" but were both kinda scared. im 12 years old and he is 15 years old but we've been through everything together. yesterdayyy we were cuddling together and i wanna have sex with him but idk like?? im confused?? ggive me advice....remember use small words, im only 12!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
but explain in DETAILE =)U DSJHDFSGUFS

Answer 1

If you have to ask, then the answer is NO!!!!

And besides - shouldn't you be doing something else... Like getting those stuck keys on your keyboard fixed ;);););)

Answer 2

I know it seems like it's the right time because you feel close to him but trust me, you're not ready. The question you have to ask yourself is, "could I have a baby right now?" You see, you couldn't have a baby, raise a baby and that is the kind of responsibility you're taking when you have sex with someone. Sure, you can use all the protection in the world but what if it doesn't work? It may sound stupid in today's "do whatever you want world" but waiting until you're married is the best thing you could do for yourself and your future husband. I had sex for the first time when I was 15 with a 14 year old girl. We both wanted to do it and when it was over 2 minutes later, she cried and I felt awful. I went on to have more sex with her then later, another girl in high school. I regret all of it now. It was fun having sex but our relationship became too serious and we spent a lot of time fighting and being upset all the time. Looking back, I wished I would have just hung out with my friends instead and had fun. When I broke up with my first girlfriend and started dating someone else, it crushed her and she actually wanted to commit suicide. It wouldn't have been like that had we not taken things so far so fast. Sex can wait. Please learn from my experience. Sex is totally worth waiting for until you get married. Go have fun with your friends. I know 10, 14 years seems like a long time to wait but once you get married, you can have all the sex you want and despite what some married people say it's great even after you've been married for ten years. Call your friends and go see a movie tomorrow.

Answer 3

You want us to use small words because you are only 12, and you're thinking about having sex. Don't do that. you are much too young. You can remain close to your boyfriend without having intercourse. He won't leave you if, that not all he wants. You're not emotionally ready for sex, some people who are growns in 20's, 30's and so on are still not emotionally ready for sex. If you're not old enough to take care of a child you're not ready, the reason I say this is because accidents do happen even when you protect your self. Trust me you should wait until you are way older at least 18.

Answer 4

Seriously, I want to call your mother right now. Why are you laying in bed with your boyfriend at 12? And why aren't your parents doing something about this? Sweetheart, I was young when I did the 'thing' you speak of, and I am now 20 and pregnant with my second baby. Do you want that to end up happening to you? Trust me, I planned this pregnancy, but my first one I was in High School being scrutinized every day. What are you in, 6th grade? Don't do this. You'll regret it. And it's never fun to regret things in life. Stop thinking about it. And, seriously, this isn't something you ask online. It's something you should be a LOT smarter about if you are going to do it, you shouldn't have to ask. Get it out of your head and keep your zipper shut. Don't do it, don't do it, don't DO IT! Why would you even... ugh I am so frustrated with children and their sex lives. Do you even have PUBIC HAIR yet?!

Answer 5

Oh no, you will sooooooo regret it. You don't want to end up a mom do you? At 12? No proms, no college, no fun, no parties, etc. Yeah, and save the being careful stuff, because condoms DO BREAK. What would you do if you got pregnant and had a baby? And he broke up with you? No guy would want to marry you with a baby. I mean who wants to become a step dad to a 6 year old when you are bearly 18??? Don't do it. I'm telling you, you will regret it for the rest of your life. And most likely be poor the rest of your life

Answer 6

First of all it is spelled Detail
Also no you should not "screw him" (as you put it) using that phrase is sooooo disrespectful! You should be using better grammar! Also, in my opinion he is too old for you.LBNL shouldn't you be smarter than to lose your virginity at 12? You could seriously ruin your life by doing that!
(Sorry about being mean, but HELLO?)

Answer 7

NO dont do it your way too young and if he truely loves u and cares for u he'll wait. i gave oral sex to my boyfriend when i was your age to my boyfriend who was 16 i have never regreted anything more in my life. dont do it now your not ready yet sex makes everything more complicated in life take your time. when your that young u dont fully understand the full impact of having sex. im 15. and ive been with my for a year and a half now he's waiting for me cause he loves me. and if your bf loves u he'll wait

Answer 8

You are saying to use small words because you are twelve. You are probably not twelve at all, just stupid and bored and wanting to see your questions on here. Well if you really are 12 don't do it, you aren't even a teenager yet so you don't want to screw up your life. You have a lot of growing up to do!

Answer 9

NO! Omg a 12 year old shouldn't even be THINKING about stuff like that! Or dating! I didn't date when I was 12!

Answer 10

sweetie, listen here.
you're 12 and you're dating a 15 year old
now, you've already got people calling you some name for that. so if you want to look like even more of that kind of person, then screw him
but if you're telling us you're "only 12" and you want to have sex
you're OBVIOUSLY not ready
and "use small words"
if you're that stupid, you're probrably going to be too stupid to tell him to use a condom, so now you're gonna be the fat pregnant whore of your school.
think about that

Answer 11

No! 12 and 15 are way too young! Besides, if you have to call it "the thing" then there is no way you are even close to ready for it.