well my hubby is overseas and i have been being friends with this guy that i meet online, well i have started haveing feelings for him. as looking for friends to chat with while my hubby was gone. can anyone help me?
2007-12-28 13:33:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you don't need to open doors that are going to be hard to close. Don't do something that you are going to regret. It sounds like a red flag for cheating.
2007-12-28 13:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You are just lonely. But that is good for you to acknowledge this. And....my dear friend, the first, not last person you need to talk to about your loneliness is your husband and not someone else. Maybe a diary or a counselor would be good for you at this time, or a support group. I wouldn't trust my "feelings" at this time, especially for someone you don't know well at all on line. Listen to your red flags, talk to your hubby and discover more deeper friendships and activities to be involved in without compromising your marriage vows. Good Luck!
2007-12-28 21:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by birnw2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad for your husband. My hubby is gone for 2 months and home for one week, etc and I get lonely. I also dont go looking for male friends on the internet. be a women and stand by your man. I mean, hey, he's only defending our country right? I think he deserves some loyalty.
2007-12-28 21:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by natasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are just lonely. Chat with women instead of men. Are you saying that you are looking for someone to chat with? If you are you can chat with me. Send me a message.
2007-12-28 21:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to put your emotions in order and stop getting any closer to this person.. you have to power to stop it or to make it happen and when that happens everything will change.. its one thing to have feeling or lust even but another to act on them.. your husband is risking his life for all of us here and the least you can do is respect that till he gets home.. i know it can be hard for military wifes and girlfriends but most the time you know that the life would be lonely at times and you was still willing to marry him so stick it out and when he gets home and then you can see how that goes before thinking of another man.. good luck and god bless him and the others..
2007-12-28 21:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Youve recognized the temptation now its time to walk away.
2007-12-28 21:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean... when you're ignored by your spouse, it's fun to chat online.
2007-12-28 21:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by Rapunzel XVIII 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋