2007-12-28 13:27:18 · 17 answers · asked by marie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to talk to him and find out what's wrong.
2007-12-28 13:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If it is He with the intimacy problems, and it is not health related then it could very well be due to lack of Respect.
Men tend to shut down sexually, and distant thereselves when they do not recieve respect at home from wives.
May sound off the wall but it is truth.
I would strongly suggest to make great efforts to start showing him 100% Respect.
If you would like more info on this check this out and see for yourself. http://www.loveandrespect.com (or) another good Christian site is http://www.marriagetoday.com
God bless and wish you two the best.
Remember a good, healthy marriage takes work on both parties, and it a two way street. If you are not giving your Husband what he needs, desires from you it will show itself in ways subltle or loud.
2007-12-28 13:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i can tell you this .
If he doesnt have feelings with being intimate and you have talked to him about it and mabe getting help . and he refuses then you cant change a thing .
I have been there and done it and all it causes is more heart ache .
drop it or find intimacy in a differnt way .
Mabe not good advice for a married couple but if you find better let me know
2007-12-28 13:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by STREETROD23T 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
women over think this issue. Just do it. And we ( men) don't care whats going on in your head. think about Robert Redford and Julio Igesias or whatever. Fake it. Push thru it.
look we just need it. Sorry ladies. With you it's a lot more complicated. Wanting to be in the mood or not thinking about whether the back door got locked and did the fridge door shut all the way...look the bed spread has a rip I wish we could afford a new one, last week at Wal-mart they had a sale on blah blah blah..
I would have masterbated by now.
just do it. put out for him. Tell him what you want (sexually) try wearing masks. meet at a bar and pretend you don't know each other.
do it and push thru it.
2007-12-28 13:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by cotton3860 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to explain a little more what is going on this could be so many different things from age, hormone changes, ED and many other things describe age and what his moods are like.
Really you want some help you need to give INFO.
I'll check back later to see if you added more details.
2007-12-28 13:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try not to disrespect or belittle him all day then wonder why he's not intimate at night.
Funny how you ask a question about a guy and all the guys get thumbs down. Truth hurts maybe.
2007-12-28 13:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
I think that it is just a stage that every marriage couple goes to. Talk to him about it.
2007-12-28 13:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Need more details, but try to talk to him about the issue. Good luck.
2007-12-28 13:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you are the problem. Look in the mirrow and try and see what he sees.
2007-12-28 13:34:00 · answer #9 · answered by William C 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well you need to talk to him about that.. if its medical then he needs to see a Dr about it.. if its just his approach at it then you can give him ideas of what you want and like.. no one knows your body better then you so teach him what you know.. good luck
2007-12-28 13:31:57 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋