We have been together 1 1/2 and the prob stems from his ex wife who cheated on him. He says be patient he is trying to heal. he is home with me everyday so I am not worried about cheating. He is interested enough to check out porn. I offered to try many things but get rejected since he says he is not ready and being intimate is connected to when he was intimate with her says his brain was wired to love her only and he is not ready to go onto that level. I am very frustrated and this causes many arguments.
2007-12-28 13:10:31 · 5 answers · asked by Kim A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would be patient and be sure to prove that you are not her. but eventually you are going to have to sit him down and explain to him that he needs to stop putting you in her shadow. Your not her and you should not have to pay for her mistakes. So eventually hopefully he will finally realize that your a faithful gal. You gotta understand that talk is cheap, so it may take time for him to see that you mean what you say. ACTIONS OF YOU BEING FAITHFUL SPEAK LOUDER THEN JUST SAYING YOUR GONNA BE FAITHFUL
2007-12-28 13:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ray-Ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two have been together for 1 1/2yrs and hes not giving it up there is a HUGE PROB! Fix it or move on. Good luck
2007-12-28 21:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by bryang702 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has serious issues which prevent a complete relationship with you. I am not sure why you should wait any longer for something that may never happen.
2007-12-28 21:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a Male Inpersonator & see if that will work.
2007-12-28 21:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by srbyn1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right
he's getting sex Somewhere if not you, his ex- or some hooker
seriously
2007-12-28 21:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋