My girlfriend has not yet come on here period and usualy does around 20-25th of the month. it is now the 28th and i am geting very worried. we have unprotected sex with no contraception and i pull out. should i be worried or could there be another reason for her to be late, or is there still plenty of time for her to come on. also if i was to buy her a home pregnancy test are they actually accurate and which is the best
2007-12-28 13:09:03 · 14 answers · asked by mark r 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You should be worried, the pull out method does not work. There are still sperm present in the pre-ejaculate fluid that is continuously secreted by an erect penis.
Have her take a test, or wait a few more days for her period. It doesn't matter what brand, they all work just fine.
If she's not pregnant, let this scare serve a lesson to you and either use more reliable methods of birth control or abstain altogether if you really don't want a baby, because even the best birth control methods are not 100%. Never.
2007-12-28 13:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by Take A Test! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you should be worried! Any time you have unprotected sex there is a good chance of pregnancy. Pulling out is NOT a method of birth control. Sometimes periods are just late for no real reason though, and it also may be from stress. However, she needs to find out either way. Get her a pregnancy test, it should be accurate now because she is late. The brand does not matter as they all test for the same horomone. If she does get a negative, some pregnant women do, have her go to the doctor and get a blood test done.
2007-12-28 13:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by N and A's Momma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you pull out, that is not a fool-proof method of birth control, a lot of people get pregnant that way. You do have reason to be worried, and about brand of pregnancy test, I would go with Clear Blue Easy because it tells you Pregnant or Not Pregnant with words and you don't have to interpret the lines or whatever. It costs a little more, but is pretty accurate.
And about the accuracy of pregnancy tests, the Clear Blue Easy is 99% on the first day of missed period, so if she is late, it should be accurate.
2007-12-28 13:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by Valerie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be worried if you don't want a child. You should never have unprotected sex unless you can accept a child in your life. Using the pull out method 27 out of 100 girls get pregnant. And most store brand tests are accurate. Also a period isn't technically considered late until you are one week late.
2007-12-28 13:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I don't like to be a b*tch, but if you don't know this stuff there is no way you should be having sex. Firstly, if you waited to have sex with her, could you not have waited a little bit longer to PUT ON A CONDOM?! And how could you not know if you came inside her or not? If she has got her period she is NOT pregnant. I think a twelve year old could probably tell you that. Also, the most fertile time is the middle of the cycle, about 2 weeks after the first day of the last period, so two days before her next period is not a fertile time. Lastly, it is really irresponsible to have sex with someone without contraception, especially when you clearly don't have a clue about the risks you are taking. And btw, if it wasn't both your first times, you should both go and have STI checks.
2016-04-01 23:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what to tell you my bf does the same and i never got pregnant. the pregnancy tests are accurate. there are ones that work 99% of the time. it says on it that it's true 99% or 99.9% of the time. which is daa! like almost always. so, you should get one for her. and there's other pregnancy tests i heard, that you can take at walmart or drugstores. her missed period could be because of changing season, or not being active as usual. tell her to go work out and if she didn't get her period, there are chances that she might be pregnant other than that, there are also many other reasons for late period.
good luck!
2007-12-28 13:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be worried just yet. The dates that women get their periods vary greatly depending on weather,food,hormones and other stuff. If she does not get her period by the 1st then you have a right to be worried. I would go ahead and buy a test just in case it hasn't come by the 1st. Relax and remember, not every month the period comes at the same time.
2007-12-28 13:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a pregnancy test.. but.. If shes not on birth control, her period doesn't have a specific time. It could just be late. I know from experience.
2007-12-28 13:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should be worried. You souldn't have unprotected sex!!! It sounds like she probably is pregnant. Sorry to tell you but I really do think she is. I would get her a home pregnacy test, they are....kind of accurate, well as far as I know, I've never tried one.
Best of luck,
Hanna
2007-12-28 13:16:24 · answer #9 · answered by Hanna S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as pregnacy test go, I got mine from the dollar store. And took 3 of them, and they were all positive.
And doesnt matter if you pull out...you can still get her prego. Best bet is to wait a couple days, then test
2007-12-28 13:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by lindzymill 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋