what is it when someone continuosley becomes jealous whenever in a deep relationship.
2007-12-28 13:02:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Neediness and deep seated insecurity.
You cannot fix this person. No one can until she/he reveals their innermost pain to another person and is lucky enough to have that person demonstrate that they feel the depth of their pain as though it had happened to them.
2007-12-28 16:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by wider scope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is Insecurity.In some cases, the insecurity is not founded on realistic dangers to the relationship. If that is really the case, then you (the jealous partner) may wish to consider where your insecurities are coming from. Solving those sorts of insecurities isn't easy, but until you do you'll continue to face those feelings.
Since we tend to become more secure in relationships as they become more stable with time, you may find that time is your ally in dealing with jealousy. Don't Deny Jealousy, Deal with ItOne of the biggest mistakes you can make is to try and hide it (in the long term, that doesn't mean you have to display it at the moment you feel it.) Jealousy is usually a signal of something needing fixing, and ignoring that usually only makes things worse.
Instead, I would suggest asking yourself "What do I feel insecure about?" Do I feel unattractive or uninteresting myself? Do I doubt the other persons love for me? Their physical attraction? Do I doubt that I can have the type of relationship I want?
Once you've figured out what the core discomfort is, then it's appropriate to ask yourself if your fears are well-founded. If it is, perhaps talking to your partner about what you are afraid of and why you believe your fears are well-founded makes sense.A different case is where you are pretty sure that your fears are unwarranted, but you just feel insecure (often about yourself more than the relationship) anyhow.
2007-12-28 13:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
jealousy i think, most of the time is a combination of strong insecurity, and just fear of getting hurt. Its also a pessimisstic attitude that lots of people lean moreso towards.... the whole, glass is half full half empty thing.... some people are very negative and more likely to be jealous, assuming the worst could happen, and that they feel is protecting them, even tho its really ruining and eating at them. jealousy can be a terrible thing
2007-12-28 13:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps insecurity.
2007-12-28 13:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by angrycelt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a disease, hun. and we all catch on sometime in life.
2007-12-28 13:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by KEEP YA HEAD UPP :] 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋