should i kill myself?

Question

im 14 and everywhere i go people say bad things to me, push me around and tell me to go die, and now i dont see any reason to live, i have to go to consoling in skool and it isnt helping, i dont want to live any more but i dont want to hurt my family.

Answer 1

overcoming hardship is a process in becoming a successful person. Kid Rock, Tom Cruise, Jay Z. Told that they were worthless and told that they would never gain success. Of course your gonna get alot of people saying stuff like "DONT KILL YOURSELF" without any specific reason... because theyre just trying to "help"... they arent idiots... just parents and book taught psychiatrists. But dude at this stage of your life its expected for people to talk ****.. happened to me and i learned from it and learned alot about how people act, and why they act the way they do and turned out successful. Read a few books on social science/behavior, eat healty, lift weights.. etc... If you can do something better then everyone else.. doesnt matter what it is.. then you can prove everyone wrong.. and you'll be the one laughing at them someday

Answer 2

no please... dont! i know just saying this doesnt mean much but... look even if you dont know me i do care. My friend has gone through this phase and im scared for her, but trust me theres much worse than what you are experiencing. Just think about your family and how much they have supported you, and your friends, and how there ARE people who love you and care and pray for you everyday. dont listen to those people cuz they know NOTHING.

YOU HEAR ME! NOTHING! they are a waste of your time, just forget about them. I know its easier said than done, but please try and remember that they are just a few pieces of sh*t.

You have a reason to live. I know things havent been going well for you but it will all turn out! Just hearing these words may be all sloppy and mooshy for you but seriously listen up and get the message. You WILL grow up and leave those freaks and start a great life

You will get married to the person of your dreams! Have children maybe? :) Any job you want is open to you as long as you work hard and strive to succeed. Once you got that job... there comes the $$$. Imagine the world and all the beautiful, spectacular places yet to have been seen by your eyes. Just close your eyes and think... the great pyramids, deep abyss of the ocean, mount everest, the tropical beaches of the pacific, the natural beauty that lies in every corner of the world.

As for your family, they love you unimaginably and will be crushed if you die, especially if you committ suicide. Please dont hurt them even though you, yourself, feel neglected in the inside. Open up to your family because if they truly care they will help you and understand.

Im just a person, a stranger to you. Im no physiciatrist, no counselor, nothing special. Take this heart, because there are people in the world who cherish you and share an undying love for you. Never forget the happy things in life, your past, present, and future, the memories you possess that keep you going and bring a smile to your face. Look outside and think about breaking the hearts of those people who could not stand a life without you. Stay in the world, until the day you will die peacefully and be happy you lived a wonderful life here on earth.

I will pray for you

Answer 3

I remember having a hard time when I was younger also. Please dont revert to this, because you really deserve better and im sure you are a great person. Im sure your family deeply loves you.

Some people feel better about themselves by putting others down. Dont take this personal. Maybe they are jealous. Do you have any friends you can trust? Do you have any hobbies or talents that really make you happy? Im sorry but anyone who would say those evil and cruel things to you should be the ones in counseling!! Hang in there - you are great...

Answer 4

Don't worry. Life will be over in about 40-60 years. It may sound like a long time but it's not. There is absolutely no reason why you should hurt your family when this life isn't going to last forever anyway. That's what I told myself when I wanted to end it all and I'm still here.

Answer 5

Find a friend or an adult at school or church that you can talk to and trust. You need to talk this out. Reading your Bible and praying will also help. These things have saved my life more times than I can count. In Job somewhere, it says that "The Lord shall repay the years the locusts ate." This means that for all the times you've suffered, God will one day repay you with that many times of happiness. I'm glad you're willing to ask for advice--that's a good sign. If your parents won't let you go into counseling outside of school, keep going to the school counselor, or find ways to talk to a pastor or other church leader about what's going on. God would not have put you on this earth if He thought you were worthless. He only makes people who are worth something, and that includes YOU. :-) So don't ever, EVER listent to those jerks that try to tell you that you should just end it. They may think they're helping or being funny, but they're not, and things like this are NEVER a joke. You are too valuable to lose. I know things are hard now, but if you stick it out, God can eventually use your past pain to help others. I know that may not help right now, but the blessings I've received from being able to sympathize and comfort others through my experiences has been well worth the years of suffering. Please, PLEASE find someone you can talk to that you can trust. If you have to, go to the hospital and tell them you feel you're a danger to yourself at the moment, or call the Suicide hotline in your area. You REALLY need this, and you need to know that you're worth it-- BEYOND worth it. You're welcome to email me if you like. It's [e-mail]. Please be safe. You're in my prayers. :-)

Answer 6

No, not the solution.
Things were really hard for me recently and they started looking up. At age 14, kids don't understand that what they say can and IS hurting other kids and its usually a result of their own insecurities. Hold your head high and ignore the people who hate. Those kids are dumb and they're honestly a HUGE waste of your time. Live your life and know that you have a purpose.

Best wishes.

Answer 7

Dear Dan,

Things will not be better if you kill yourself. You'll just be rotting underground with worms all over you, and your life will be over. nada. Nothing left to feel or enjoy. If you choose not to, you can get through the hard times - everyone has them - and strive for peace and enjoyment in your life. The people who push you around are insecure of themselves and that is why they do it. You have to choose to carry yourself higher than those people because they are retards. I think you have the strength to carry on and think of it this way - would you rather be burried in a cold muddy hole underground, with your family and friends devastated and heartbroken for years, and you never get to see them again nor do they ever see you again, or would you rather be alive and breathing, with a chance to make your life into anything you want. Life is what you make it out to be. Please don't kill yourself it's not worth it. There are lots of things to enjoy that you just haven't discovered yet.

Answer 8

You're having it rough. Crud is coming at you. Don't take that crud inside of yourself. You stay clean and clear. It's hard to do. But you can do it. It's a mistake to take crud inside and let it work against you. That leads to depression. Depression leads to thoughts of suicide because it just hurts too much to bear. Keep talking with your counselor. Do what's right for YOU. Start treating yourself exactly like you know in your heart every kid should be treated. Pretend your SON, your little guy who depends on you for his life and sense of worth, is riding along. Take care of HIM. Rise above the crud. It's everywhere, hon. But we can forge good lives for OURSELVES. You just hang in there, stay tough and committed to creating a better world for yourself. Do it to show the crud slingers that you are a better being, a greater soul, that there is a higher road and that you are strong and good enough to follow it and live it. Direct all of that hurt inside into that nobler effort. Turn the hurt into rocket fuel of goodness. You are the captain of your own soul, son.

Answer 9

Killing yourself could just justify and make the people who bullied you at school more happy , and satisfied. Comparing to what you think this people who made fun of you are lonely and pitiful persons who needs , attention and care. So instead of giving these people a means to continue their evil ways , show to them that you are strong , and not to be bullied. Show them the real you . I could feel that you have the ability inside , that even you doesn`t know.
Please remember , on your text, that you don` t want to see your family grieve.....yes! this is your hidden power of feelings...and in this thoughts and words measured, your power as a human being , because you have the power to love . If you end your life in a tragic way , your family could lead to a great unspeakable life, can you bear to see them grieve? You love them ...and you don`t like to see your love one lonely isn`t it? It is your duty ..and I know that you can do it.

Answer 10

no don't hurt yourself
don't pay no attention to these people.
You are here for a reason this situation will make you a stronger person. If you let it , Talk to your console that may help. Blessed Be and live