Well it all started around 6 in the morning the day before with just a little bleeding so I called the hospital they told me to put a pad on so I did. After I did the bleeding wasn't even heavy at all just spotting. Well around 3 in the morn. I woke up to feeling very weird and in pain. I feel like I was in labor or something. I stood up I felt blood dripping out of me so I went to the bathroom sat on the toielt and blood just came out of me like I was having a baby. Around 6am it happen again but not so much like the last time tissue came out and the placenta came out. Around 8 the fetus came out. After that I felt a little cramping then my bleeding went to a regular like period. All of my cramps are gone and no heavy bleeding at all. Now, it's just I feel very empty inside my fiaince and I was SO excited for this. We both cried. But, we told ourselves that there is better days ahead. In Feb. I get my pap so after that could I try again. Will that give me enough time to heal?
2007-12-28 09:54:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
February will be enough time to heal physically to TTC again.
Here are some things to help you heal emotionally:
Empty Cradle, Broken Heart: Surviving the Death of Your Baby
by Deborah L. Davis
Trying Again: A Guide to Pregnancy After Miscarriage, Stillbirth, and Infant Loss
by Ann Douglas
When Hello Means Goodbye
by Paul Kirk
Empty Arms: Coping After Miscarriage, Stillbirth and Infant Death
by Sherokee Isle
I Never Held You: A book about miscarriage, healing, and recovery
by Ellen M. DuBois
I'll Hold You in Heaven
by Jack W. Hayford
A Silent Sorrow: Pregnancy Loss - Guidance and Support for You and Your Family (Revised and Updated 2nd Edition)
by Ingrid Kohn
In Heavenly Arms: Grieving the Loss and Healing the Wounds of Miscarriage
by Shari Bridgeman
Silent Grief: Miscarriage-Child Loss: Finding Your Way Through the Darkness
by Clara Hinton
2007-12-28 09:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by Malina 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear, I know how you feel. I had a m/c last December, I was at my 12 week ob visit when the doc told us that there was no heartbeat. I had to go through a D&C just before christmas. I went through a lot of greif, what helped me was talking to other people who went though the same thing. As far as how long to wait before trying again, my doc told us 2 months after the D&C but by Feb of this year I got pregnant. This is how I think about the baby I lost. I would have my beautiful little girl now without lossing my first. You will heal but you will never forget. good luck!
2007-12-28 11:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by myth4dreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time does heal , so sorry for your loss been throught it like you twice and preggers now and nervous as all hell, that will be the only draw back in you next pregnancy you will be a nervous wreck, the fear of loss after expierencing one is very draining but once you and your boyfreind are finally able to actually hold a baby of your own you will be soothed but will never forget, I hope your pregnant by the time you go back and celebrate the next year with a new addition to fill the void. God Bless and hugs and sorries to both you and your boyfreind.
2007-12-28 10:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by stargazer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God Bless You. You will have plenty of time to heal God will make sure your dreams are fulfilled, but you must change your ways a little. Marriage should always come prior to pregnancy. Make sure the new life you wish to bring into this world will have 2 GOOD parents and enough resources to be raised healthy and educated for the future. Loving a baby is wonderful but your must prepare for the following 20 years.
2007-12-28 10:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by TillieDillie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. A good friend of mine miscarried twins at 21.5 weeks. Actually, one was born alive but died within a few hours. She felt very sad for a long time, but is doing much better. I think time will help you heal. You need to grieve. I'm sure you will get replies from others who have miscarried. It happens to many women. You are not alone. Good luck in the future. Again, I'm so sorry for your loss.
2007-12-28 10:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by momof3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your body knows when it is okay to conceive again. So i think wait till after your pap test then go about ttc as usual and if your body isnt up to it yet then you wont fall straight away. If your body is ready then you will fall when it is ready. Your body was designed for this so trust it to do what it needs to do at this time. I'm sorry to hear about your misccariage thats really awful. I hope your next pregnancy is wonderful and everything you hope it to be! Good Luck!
2007-12-28 10:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say thata misscariage is our bodies way of saying that the pregnancy was not healthy. Keep this in mind as you try again because it wouldn't benefit you r that child to be sick. My sister had a amiscarriage after trying toconcieve for years. She just kind of mourns on that day each year and teats it like a loss in her life which is sad but she keeps trying.
Sorry for your loss.
2007-12-28 09:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by pledge lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most doctors recommend you wait 2 cycles before trying again.
2007-12-28 10:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by JPO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to wait at least 6 weeks before trying again.
2007-12-28 09:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by lindzymill 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im s0rry. thats really sad. but i think y0u sh0uld definitly try again and that that will definitly be en0ugh time t0 heal.
2007-12-28 09:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by michaela. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋