ok so i like this guy
and i told hiim that i liiked hiim and everything and know hes starting to like me and know wants to meet up with me....
but the problem is my parents if they found out i was seeing a guy they would murder me,im not alowed to date.
so anyway this guy that i like tells me his had sex before and is really experienced. I really like hiim and i have since grade 4 and im in year 9 know, i think that if i dont meet hiim and wait till im older like at uni and stuff i feel if i dont do it now i will lose my chance with him.
The problem is next year im sort of trying to become a good student and get good marks so i can get somewhere with my future, and ye im sooo confused i wanna be with hiim but i dont want it to get in the way of my education!
because i no that im not going to beable to get him out of my mind and this is going to affect my school..........i needd helppp
Should i follow my head or my heart.....?
i need advice on what to do........?
ergently thnx
2007-12-28 09:50:09 · 10 answers · asked by bitch 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
This should be in the family and relationships folder.
2007-12-28 09:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
thats a tuff Q.... first of all i think u shud tell ur parents (defenatley if hes older) but if u dont think they could handle this then i guess u shudnt second of all if u met him online that could be extremeley dangerous so u should tell ur friends and when and if u do go to meet him have a friend come w u but i think u shud go at ur own pace and meet him when ur rdy dont let the fear of losing him push you to things u arent rdy 4.. thats how peer pressure is established w drugs n sex... neways if u do decide u want 2 meet him find a healthy balanve between friends/boyfriends and school so ur school work isnt affected good luck
2007-12-28 18:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by KAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By seeing the way you spell, I really think you need to concentrate a LOT more on your studies.
I totally agree with the adage that's been mentioned earlier...
men are like buses.... sure, they'll take you for a ride for awhile, but then they'll dump you out on the street and leave you with a stench....
Follow your HEAD. You have plenty of time to screw yourself up by listening to your heart as an adult.
2007-12-28 20:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by b0rnbad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can still date and get a good education
but if it means sneaking around behind your parent backs its just going to get all too complicated
firstof all i would sit your parents down and talk to them
tell them that you have met this great guy and you want to go on a date
before they blow their top tell them that you sat them down to talk and to make a arangement because you could have done what most girls do and just sneak around but you have never sone anything not to be trusted so why dont they trust you to date??
tell them that it wont effect ur education because you will manage your time and you want a chance!
If you stuff up you will not ask them to change their rules again
but you want a chance
if that gets sorted then go 4 it!!
2007-12-28 18:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by boris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't disobey your parents. I know it feels like you'll die if you're not with him, but if the dude isn't willing to wait for you, he's not worth it. And why would you wanna be with a guy who's had sex with a bunch of girls already? Better guys will come along
2007-12-28 17:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never ever let a man be your compass as you prepare for your future. If I have to tell you why, you are surely lost already.
2007-12-30 02:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by puppetrina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are like buses,if you miss one ...another will be right along.he sounds like a loser anyway,why brag how many girls you had sex with,do you want to be part of his stats?
once you have sex with him he will move on!!!!!it's in his genetic make-up,he can't help it.
why buy the cow.....when the milk is for free!
picture yourself pregnant !!!......that should wake you up.
2007-12-28 18:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by ole man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do yourself a favor, get permission to see him first, be prepared for him to try and have sex with you, be aware you will have to lie and sneak around to be with him and that will take away from the energy you should be directing towards your studies
2007-12-28 17:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by cheri h 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're super young. you'll get over it. you'll meet someone new. focus on school
2007-12-28 18:00:10 · answer #9 · answered by Danni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
school first if he loves you he will wait
2008-01-01 07:12:26 · answer #10 · answered by Spsipath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋