I am 13 and having a baby in January??
I am scared of what it will be like should i have an abortion or put it up for adoption??
2007-12-28 08:27:51 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You cannot have an abortion now. The baby is fully formed and will able to live on its own. An abortion is something you should have considered 8 months ago.
You cannot take care of a baby at your age. You and your parents should decide what to do with the baby. They may want to raise it. If not, yes put it up for adoption.
Please stop having sex. You are way too young for the adult problems sex brings with it. Next time instead of a baby, you might get AIDS or herpes. There is no cure for either of theses, and I'm sure you know AIDS usually leads to death. You can also contract STDs which do have cures, but can make you sterile if not treated promptly. Please learn from this mistake and stop having sex until you grow up.
2007-12-28 08:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by joker_32605 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can not have an abortion now, because it too late. Plus, how would you feel if you had an abortion to know that you had killed your child? You should put it up for adoption, because a baby deserves a mother & a father in a good, stable relationship, who can financially support it. Plus, some adoption agencies let you & the adoptive parents work out arrangments for you to see the child or get letters & pictures, if you want to keep track of your baby. That way you could see how it is doing in the future.
2007-12-28 09:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by Wilde1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off if your baby is due in January, than abortion is kind of out of the question. Second what do your parents think. If they don't know by some off chance thank you need to tell them immediately. Being you are so young you should be seeing a doctor to protect your health and the babies. My guess is though your best bet would be to think seriously about adoption. Don't be too worried about delivery epidurals are God's gift to women.
2007-12-28 08:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Adoption would be a wonderful gift from you to someone who could care for your baby. You will have plenty of time later in life to have your own baby. A real baby is not a toy or something to leave for your mom or dad to care for. All babies need to be raised by loving parents who have the capacity, with money and maturity, to bring the baby to become the best person he/she can be.
Abortion in the last month of pregnancy is not legal in any of the United States.
2007-12-28 12:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by jjudijo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN NOT HAVE AN ABORTION THIS FAR ALONG. You should not have an abortion. You should be having sex if you do not want a baby. Have the baby and put it up for adoption if you or family can not take care of it. And STOP HAVING SEX! I feel sorry for the baby, hopefully you can give the baby to a very nice couple who actually want to have a baby but can't.
2007-12-28 08:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by DolphinFan02 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
You weren't thinking were you. Too young to have sex. You need to have your baby and put it up for adoption if your family will not help you take care of the baby and you. What a hardship and a heartbreak. You can't really get a decent job for 5 more years.
One moment of pleasure has caused a lifetime of misery. Thirteen years old ... where was your mother? Were you ever disciplined?
Don't make it worse. Put your baby up for adoption, because I don't believe you have any family support. You are 13 having sex, so your mother doesn't care or she would have stopped this. Do you not fear the Lord who says "do not fornicate?" Having sex out of wedlock is called fornication and it is evil and wrong.
No one seems to have told you anything, so I am.
2007-12-28 08:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you cannot have an abortion, put the baby up for adoption
2007-12-28 08:41:15 · answer #7 · answered by Me, again 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually you can have an abortion this late in the game, surely you don't really intend to do that. Do you know what happens to the baby when you decide to abort this late? If I were you I would find a loving home for this baby. It is apparent that you are not ready to face the consequences of playing adult. What exactly did you expect to happen when you decided to have sex? You need to realize that you are still a child and enjoy what is left of your childhood.
2007-12-28 08:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by gklb 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you should give it up for adoption. i mean no offense but you shouldn't kill an Innocent baby for your mistake. I'm not trying to make you feel bad or anything i just don't like the thought of an Innocent little baby Die for no reason and hadn't even got a chance to live yet. well good luck with everything.:)
P.S. i think you should try and do everything you can to keep the baby and also talk to the dad about it to.
2007-12-28 08:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by Hailey:) 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's too late in the game for an abortion, so adoption if you think you cant take care of it.
2007-12-28 08:32:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anne 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋