he always bring up his ex about how he never caught any thing from them, should i be worried that he is still sleeping with other women?
2007-12-28 06:47:06 · 12 answers · asked by kellam_j 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
DUMP HIM AND GET YOURSELF CHECKED. He does not respect you. Is that the kind of guy you want to spend the rest of your life with? Learn to respect YOURSELF!!!
2007-12-28 06:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by health buff 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a new boyfriend! Don't let him pressure you into that, if you don't want him not using a condom, then so be it! Using a condom is the right thing to do, your boyfriend is just being an asssss.
I say dump him.
2007-12-28 09:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lullabye.™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to both go and get tested. Second, if you think that your boyfriend is sleeping with other women...you should really reevaluate your relationship. Third, if that's really what you want then you need to take a stand - be assertive. That doesn't have to mean aggressive, but assertive. Say something like, "It really bothers me that we don't use condoms. I know you prefer it when we don't, but it makes me really uncomfortable, which makes it hard for me to enjoy sex. I want to be intimate with you, but I can't keep doing things like this. We need to use condoms." You shouldn't have to put yourself at risk for pregnancy and STDs b/c he's being a jerk. Your needs are important too! If he won't do that for you, then, again, maybe you should reevaluate your relationship.
2007-12-28 06:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by an bhuil gaeilge agat? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its your body. He doesn't have to be sleeping with someone to be giving you diseases. And the pressure crap- I thought our women were more liberated. Do not back down. Condoms are just smart. And the next time he says he doesn't want to wear a condom- tell him the only 100% for sure way NOT to get pregnant is not to do it at all. Is he ready for children?
2007-12-28 06:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by froglady972 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like an ***. Do you want to use condoms? Are you on birth control? He is not withdrawing either I take it?
If he can't respect your wishes don't be with him. And bringing up an ex has nothing to do with it because this is you and him , nothing to do with her
2007-12-28 07:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your boyfriend is either too young to make a good choice about having sex or he's just a moron... Either way I say be done with him. There should be no argument on this subject.
2007-12-28 07:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop letting this loser use you! He has no respect for you--he sleeps around; he refuses to have safe sex with you; and he argues with you about it. That's terrible! This guy is really really bad for you.
2007-12-28 06:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by Q 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't on the pill you need to start saying NO.
"No hats, no sex".
Sounds like a jerk to me.
2007-12-28 06:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just not getting decease but pregnancy also another factor
2007-12-28 06:51:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does he wan't you to get pregnant?
2007-12-28 06:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋