since i was a kid (i'm 19) i wanted to do what girls do, and wear what girls wear. i have long hair, i'm always on a diet, and have a large (allbeit secret) collection of make-up and female clothes, i try to androgynous so that i can look convincing. i 'dress up' whenever i can - it somehow makes me feel good. i don't think i'm a woman trapped in a mans body, but rather whatever the male version of a tomboy is. i want to know why i'm not normal - and what i should do about it?
2007-12-28 04:33:37 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
You might just be curious what it's like to be a girl, if you want to dress-up like a girl, then here's what you should buy: a pair of black panties & matching bra (a pair of fake breasts too), a pair of black sheer pantyhose or black stockings & a garter belt, a little black dress, a pair of 4" black pumps, a long blonde wig & make-up, nails, perfume & some jewelry too.
jk
2008-01-01 02:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one area that I'm NOT an expert in, but I'll give it a try: Maybe, as you said, you are simply androgynous? Do some research on it maybe? If thats is what you are, its definitely nothing abnormal, and certainly nothing to feel ashamed about! The are many, many people that live an androgynous lifestyle. I'm sure you probably see them all the time, and don't even realize it. But whatever it is, I think that the most important thing is that you do some soul searching and find out what it is that you really, truly want out of life, and do it regardless of what anyone else tells you. You don't seem like you are harming anyone else, thats for sure. So there is not a thing wrong with it. But you have to be true to yourself, first and foremost. As one other person said - don't live your life as a complete lie. Be who you are - whomever that may be, and be proud of it. Don't EVER let anyone else stand in the way of your happiness. Its your life, not theirs. They have their life already. Why let them deprive you from being happy?
Look, we only get one chance at life. ONE. And thats all. Find out what it is that makes YOU the happiest, and go for it - don't just dream it - LIVE IT!!! Just my non-expert opinion, but I really hope it helps!!!
Good luck!
2007-12-28 05:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by Rach ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, ignore the ignorance you've received in some of these answers. You are normal for YOU. God, psychiatrists - that's completely the wrong answer, unless you need help from a counselor/psychiatrist to help come to terms with yourself. There is not any reason you should feel "abnormal" or that you "need fixing." That's bullhockey!
And honestly - cross dressing isn't necessarily an indicator that you're "gay" either. Women are allowed to dress in suits, pants, dress shirts, etc, without being viewed as abnormal. I don't see anything wrong with following your desires, as long as you don't lie to yourself, to others, or harm yourself or others.
Good luck figuring out your true self.
2007-12-28 04:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to figure it out, just BE. You'll waste your lifetime trying to figure shxx out, just live your life and dance.
God made us all different & special. My Mom always said" if everyone was the same the world would be awfully boring". She would describe the world like a picture..."if it was all done in one color how pretty would that be? It's is all of the differences people have that makes the world colorful & special".
Step outside and check the worId out! Once you get past your fears you will see the world in a whole new light!!!!
2007-12-28 04:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by seadooprincess 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My goodness, some of the comments you are recieving are so horrible.
Maybe you are a woman trapped in a mans body.
You are not gay, being a woman trapped in a mans body is not a severe form of being gay.
Don't let anyone stop you, just ignore the looks and comments.
Hope I have helped!
2007-12-28 04:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Normal is in the eye of the beholder. Who knows why we are the way we are? Try meeting some people online in the trans/cross dressing lifestyle (there's always some in the gay and lesbian community) and once you find like-minded people (and you're not alone in this), maybe you'll discover things about yourself.
2007-12-28 04:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yerr...Maybe Your Gay. Which Is SO Not A Problem. If Not, Just Wear What You Want, Nobody Can Tell You What Too Do.
Nessaa x
2007-12-28 04:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous<3 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Joey . . . if thats what you want to do, do it . . . you are not hurting anyone . . . be prepared to get some flack from people who don't understand. On the otherhand, you will find there are people who will fully support you.
Why live life as a lie? If wearing girls stuff makes you feel good . . . do it. Just be yourself, thats all you can be . . .
2007-12-28 04:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Tim H 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can be whoever you want to be, don't be ashamed of you! If you want to dress like a woman then dress like one. You don't have to like guys to do this. I actually know some super straight guys that wear womens clothes, and they look damn good in it! Have fun love!
2007-12-28 04:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by dala_o_2003 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just be a crossdresser. Like Jeffree Star. He's like...better looking then most girls, haha...No big deal really. Also like Jeffree Star, if anyone says anything about your lifestlye choice, just kick the **** out of them ;]
2007-12-28 04:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋