I'm 18 in March and had been with my boyfriend 2 and a half years until we split a couple of weeks ago,but I carnt help but feel extremley jealous of pregnant women/people with children, as he made me have an abortion for him and now all I feel is I wish I could go back, I would love his children now but I carnt wait for him which is part of the reason we broke up. But now I long for a child and I feel I shouldnt, I carnt change his ways and I carnt change how I feel, what can I/we do?
2007-12-28 03:04:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Learn from this expereince and never give yourself totally to a man. That was the most stupid, most ignorant thing you could do to yourself. The abortion aside, you giving yourself away totally to a man was riducilous, wrong, and was parmount to self-abuse. Until you realize the why, how, and what of that, your going to continue to suffer. Call it, coming to terms with the memories of the past relationship. Since its all based around you neglecting yourself, you most come to realize THAT. Are continue the self-neglect. Which your doing. Instead of blaming him, you blame you. AND not for the right reasons, your to blame, but only for picking him, and becoming trapped in the cage.
2007-12-28 03:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your body..it was your decision...but its in the past, so let it go..dont let it take your power and keep you feeling this way..you must learn from this and grow from it..if you need to seek professional help to get past these deep feelings thats ok to do. but above all..dont let anyone have your power. you should stay in control of your destiny....no one else
2007-12-29 22:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by Rusty929 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe he made you get an abortion, he probably strongly suggested it but you made a choice too.
2007-12-28 11:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by Angela O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋