2007-12-28 02:49:51 · 8 answers · asked by Crazy Life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The questions were all simple and good , I appreciated them, but this is getting to the point of no return, my parents, for no reason kicked my boyfriend out on Christmas Day and expect him to take it. Old European family, this is nutz....honeslty I feel sick, my entire family (married sisters) and all are involved, most of all they wont listent and I am embarrassed by their behavior. They were screaming things like you can be with a millionaire and you deserve better, my bf has never done anything to them, nothing...its crazy, they just dont want me with him at all..period they are trying everything in their power to break us up, even spreading rumors! and telling negative stuff about his family..my bf is on the brink!
2007-12-28 03:00:13 · update #1
on top of that...my bf keeps telling me to call my family b/c they are important and its not nice to fight and if he was a prick he'd say f- them and get on with our life..but no he didnt..im so upset and confused..i really dont know what to say and do b.c no one will listen.
2007-12-28 03:01:45 · update #2
I'm sorry to hear that you are in this pinch.
Begin by getting out of the middle. Refrain from arguing with your family about your fella; and make your relationship with him about the two of you (leave mom and pop and sisters at home).
Sounds like you are at a decision point in your life - it's up to you to make your own decisions about what you want, who you want to live with, where you want to live.
Your family can't live your life for you.
Your boyfriend, nice as he is, isn't the only guy out there.
Sorry it's uncomfortable but there it is. You choose, and then find your courage to stand in the face of what comes next.
Good luck.
2007-12-28 03:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it your b/f is not a banker. Times have changed bigitme since the old folks were young. Women usually did what they were told without arguing, nowadays, we tend to do what feels right and stand up for what and who we believe in.
If he is worth it, then stay with him, family will come round if the dont, well, it wont stop you from loving them and you'll still be with b/f and happy.
2007-12-28 11:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by Doughboys 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time it's always like that, specially if the bf and family don't get along.
Talk with your family and boyfriend and let them know that you dont like to be in the middle, and that's all they are doing, putting you in the middle.
2007-12-28 10:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
good luck it is very hard. I have a similar problem. What i did to ease it up was bluntly say "talk to them yourself!"
2007-12-28 10:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by Hello Kitty 2442 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse to be the go between. Don't relay any messages!
2007-12-28 10:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur parents try to understand them then talk to ur boyfriend about the same thing then try to compramise
2007-12-28 10:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by That's a secret 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will end up either losing your family or losing your boyfriend.
2007-12-28 11:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u shud make dem see each other less time
2007-12-28 10:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋