2007-12-28 02:11:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
What do you do?
2007-12-28 02:11:32 · update #1
my partener has never expected me to be perfect. He accepts me faults and all!
2007-12-28 02:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by loving life!!!!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they tell you that or show you in other ways then I would feel like it was time to either talk about it and let them know or get out. The person may not realize what they are doing to you or how they are making you feel. If they do and continue to do it anyway then there is a big problem there.
You can always strive to be better for yourself but you should not do it just to please this one person, especially if it means changing who you are all together in a bad way. If they are willing to work with you and change with you (like things YOU have issues with with this person) then you may be able to save it. If they are unwilling to learn and grow With you, grow closer in a positive way and only want YOU to change what they feel is needed, that is simply a need to control and it won't last that way. Relationships take "work" and you have to work TOGETHER to make it, to enjoy it. Without working together there will be more fights, and more unhappiness for you both. If you are not married and this person won't change a thing about what is making you miserable and not working in the relationship...then you need to think about leaving. If you are married seek pro help.
PS
No one is perfect....not by a long shot.
2007-12-28 10:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ PrincessLeia ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one that loves you should expect you to be the "perfect person".
I try to be the best I can be, and realize that I am human, and will not ever be perfect.
So, boost your self-esteem, be yourself, and have a great time doing it!!!
After all, they accepted you to begin with, didn't they? It was good enough then, wasn't it?
2007-12-28 10:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by shewolf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Accept yourself for who you are. If a partner does not appreciate and accept you then you move on.
I wasted 9 years trying to become who my partner expected me to be. In the process I lost who I actually was. He was never satisfied and I was miserable.
2007-12-28 10:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by PrivacyNowPlease! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my partner does not want me to be perfect he loves me just the way I am
2007-12-28 10:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda makes you feel like crap. But hey you shouldn't change to suit him- he should love you for who you are already. I believe that what one person doesn't have their partner should. That way you complete each other. So when you are being your unperfect self, he should be there to help you get back on the right track...
2007-12-28 10:20:27 · answer #6 · answered by Tryin to Liv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your partner expects you to be a perfect person he lives in an unreal world, nobody is perfect............(that would be too boring!)
2007-12-28 10:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He always says I'm perfect, but I'm not. He excepts and loves me for the good in me as well as my faults.(I feel the same way about him) So we are "perfect" for each other.
2007-12-28 10:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Bella Italiana 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are perfect. maybe just not for him. if he expects you to be something you're not, there are a lot of people out there that will think who you are IS perfect.
2007-12-28 10:35:03 · answer #9 · answered by Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I broke up with my ex after two years because we realized I was not who he wanted, I felt sad, empty, and everything negative you can imagine.
I still feel bad because I did horrible things to be what he didn't want plus I gained a huge amount of weight as well.
2007-12-28 10:17:39 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what you are saying that she dump me last year because I wasn't what she expect because if you do than I believe you because I got the feeling that she was just using me for my money that about that, there were no love in our relationship. I mean I was the one that actually doing love or saying loving with my heart but not her.
2007-12-29 08:06:58 · answer #11 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋