Last night i took a pregnancy test saw a faint line of positive took another this morning i am so pregnant my dilema is that i have a 23 month old and 6 month old twins i am a little scared though is this normal and yes we wanted to have another baby we have all boys and hope this one is a girl but i am still a little overwhelmed also this is it when we have this one regardless of boy or girl i am getting my tubes tied that also scares me
2007-12-28 02:07:11 · 8 answers · asked by courtney c 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
the reason i will get my tubes tied is i have to have a c-section again and they can do it at oone time and recovery is the same time i have alot of support from friends and of course my husband but how do we tell our families who said we shouldn't have more kids
2007-12-28 02:27:25 · update #1
Just in part to the first answer.
I think that thinking is a little sexiest. Number one, it is there choice on whom gets what done. It may be a religious choice as well. Keep in mind not all women have problems from having the procedure done and can be performed right after having birth. Not all men have problems immediately after either.
What this young lady wants is a little encouragement. And in all honesty she deserves a medal for all she has gone through and about to. I am proud to be a part of a large family (six kids), and I am sure she will to.
2007-12-28 02:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by James V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have your husband get his tubes tied. For you to have it done its a full on over night procedure with all sorts of serious complications, and it takes weeks for you to heal.. For a man its a 15 minute nonsurgical procedure and they go home when its done.
Yes he'll still have ejaculate, no it will not be clear, yes he will function exactly the same as before.
Just think of it this way, you're having all your kids in one go! It'll be rough and exhausting until theyre a little older, but people do it ALL THE TIME, and once theyre done being babies they'll be eachothers best friends which makes them easier to raise.
I think its excellent, even with twins! What fun!
Just ask for and take all the help thats ever offered. Theres nothing wrong with it at all.
2007-12-28 10:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It is scarey to have so many small kids at once - but things will work out. Ask your family and friends for help. Just think, when this baby is born, your oldest will be almost 3 and the twins will be over 1.
Good luck!
2007-12-28 10:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is what u wanted then why are u so worried that u wont get to have a girl or? u need to jus relax what ever happens will happen. even if u get ur tubes tied. u can have it undone done the road if u ever wanna try again..
good luck
2007-12-28 10:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by short stuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wll be fine. it may be overwhelming but have failth you can handle it. as far as getting your tubes tied that is your decision if you are scared then don't do it and use bc untl you are ready to have them tied. as far as telling family it really isn't their decision to make as far as how many kids you and your husband decide to have and they should be supportive. that is what family is for
2007-12-28 10:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by breegehemi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are scared, but women have been raising multiple children forever... as long as you have good emotional support from the father and your family...alll will be fine.
Congrats!
2007-12-28 10:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by julia n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...... yeah i would be overwhelmed as well, that will be alot to handle. i would definately make an appointment with your doctor, because of having pregnancies so close together, that way you can start your prenatel care asap.... Goodluck and congrats!!!!
2007-12-28 10:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by alicia m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not quite sure what your question is
2007-12-28 10:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by mom737 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋