2007-12-26 21:15:32 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
sorry and i meant 3 weeks and use have known each otehr for yrs!! srry ppl
2007-12-26 21:18:24 · update #1
know that what people say to you and what they really would do if it were their own situation would be two different things.
It's your decision, your choice, your body, your reputation, your emotions, your life, your........
I'm aware of people who do it on the first time they meet someone because of the attraction. Sometimes the attraction fades and disappointment happens. And sometimes even if you've known a person for a long time and try it then disappointment happens (so you might lose a friend or it could become an awkward relationship from there on). But these days with the problems of std's, aids, hepatitis, cold sores, etc.) and people not being open to talk about these things for a couple of years or even more, and, some people not caring about other people getting what they have, if I were you I'd be very careful. Some men (probably women too) are curious and venturesome. Sometimes gut feelings aren't correct, and sometimes we will "never" really know the other person. So it's your choice.
2007-12-27 03:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you HAVE to ask him about his past sex life--he will probably lie so ask him to go with you to get your bloods tested for those nice fatal diseases that he might have. Then you need to ask him what form of protection he PLANS on using--CONDOMS are nice--a vasectomy and a rubber is better. Then if a baby does happen to come along--where does he plan on living so you know where to tell your folks you two are. Where will he work?? He probably will need two jobs to feed all of you and all those bills for the next 18 years. Then you want to start asking him what makes him think he has enough respect and love for you in 2 whole weeks. I mean just asking for sex is not enough--what is it that makes him want to marry you and have a long happy, mature, adult relationship?? So do you see my answer here???
2007-12-26 21:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just feel you are going to do it anyway... or you would not be asking... I think it is pointless to ask. You either will or you will not. But as you have put this question I am nearly 100% sure you will and the only thing I can say is be careful. You know the risks involved up to and including giving yourself emotionally to someone who may disappoint you not too far down the track.
Lisa
2007-12-26 21:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO DONT DO IT! DONT DO IT! The longer you wait before giving up the cookies the more he respects you. Make it special! Don't rush. This will show how much he really respects you. Be different. Think about it all the other girls who probably gave it up too soon. Dont be like the other girls.
2007-12-27 02:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by Rose D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the question is are you ready for that step. keep in mind it will change your entire relationship. are you prepared for the consequences of taking the next step? from personal exp. sex changes a relationship and i have found that even a great friendship will change after sex.
2007-12-26 21:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give that a lot of thought. Sex, is suppose to be a expression of love. Wait a little bit. So I,guess my answer would be no. It took real courage to ask that.
2007-12-26 21:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by Bob Dylan ♪ 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't have sex at 14, I know everyone says it, but if I could go back I would have waited and I was 17.
2007-12-26 21:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by luv_doesnt_hurt_lies_do 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nope
2007-12-26 21:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by pzaminator 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No way-I wouldn't trust someone who wanted to have sex after that little time of dating, no matter how long I knew him before.
2007-12-26 21:19:46 · answer #9 · answered by Bruja 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
When you are ready, the time will be right. For you to ask this question, tells me you are not ready...either that or you want permission?!
2007-12-26 21:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋