and why do gay guys like me?
my brother suddenly realized that i'm friends with a lot of gay people, and i even watch shows that have gay kissing and i'm not fazed by it at all.
2007-12-26 19:42:02 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
if you didn't notice my name, i'm a girl
who hangs out with gay BOYS
so i can't be gay now can i?
2007-12-26 19:51:47 · update #1
You feel comfortable around them because they don't hit on you, want to have sex with you, and talk about shoes and fashion all the time.
2007-12-26 19:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by Cornelius 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what Jessica, I think you like that safe no commitment thing you feel when you are around them...after all, what other group of males could you feel safe with? Most of the gay guys are probably very friendly, kind, funny, and certainly won't want anything sexual from you...what's not to like?
This does not mean that you are in fact a lesbian, It just means that you are entertained and enlightened by a bunch of friendly people...So, don't get all concerned, just enjoy yourself.
Now if at sometime in the near future, you get involved with a nice straight guy...I wouldn't recommend introducing him to your friends all at once...maybe one or two at a time and keep it light.
2007-12-26 19:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by chridenp 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your just a F** Hag, nothing wrong with that!! ;)
You can hang out, and no one is trying to put the movies on you. You can get lots of attention and do all the things YOU like doing, because gay guys like doing the same thing!
and Ting Tong is completely wrong, girls don't hang out with gay guys because they can't get a guy or they want the gay guy (that would just be silly) they hang with them because it's FUN!
2007-12-26 21:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by vicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very likely the same reason I hang out with people much older than me. I simply have no interest whatsoever in the banal and mondane fickleness that young people my age engage themselves in. My senoir friends all share my common interests, or rather me theirs, and I have very little in common with people my age.
Maybe you just enjoy their company more. You dont need to defend that. If your brother has a lot of girl friends, that doesnt make him a girl, so simply because you have plenty of gay friends it doesnt mean your gay.There!
2007-12-26 19:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by Roche P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're probably comfortable with non-threatening guys. Homosexual men are tons of fun to hang out with, and there isn't that pressure that maybe they only like you because you're pretty or because you put out. With hetero men there's always pressure. Today it isn't uncommon to be okay with homosexuality and to not be "fazed" by it. Its all around us, on television, movies, and theatre...in music, in art, in magazines, on clothing...its the people who aren't okay with it that should be asking questions. After all....homophobia is so gay! *wink*
2007-12-26 19:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by theatre_rat_7583 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because gay guys are awesome. You won't be pressured to look prettier than them to get guys like you would a girl and they're just all around amazing. Gay guys are amazing!
2007-12-26 19:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by Tatianna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on being a well-adjusted, enlightened individual! Nothing more than that! And also, there's nothing wrong with it either. It's because we're the boyfriend that listens to you and shares in your conversations and doesn't want sex from you, etc. etc. Basically, you're not a close minded bigot, and that's awesome!!
2007-12-26 20:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by faintfiend 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay guys are so nice, sweet, kind and they are as unbitchy as anyone can come! I want some gay friends to hang out with, I'm sick of bitchy girls.
2007-12-26 19:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jessica, congratulations on looking at the total human being. We all get far too caught up in matters of gender. If you are treated with respect and enjoy someone's company, what does it really matter how they receive and give pleasure? Hmm?
2007-12-26 20:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by q2tango 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because gay guys aren't into this macho hang up thing, which is a big turn off to a lot of people and you dont find gay guys threatening, insulting and rude as you may find many straight guys, cause straight guys are always trying to get into your pants. Also gay guys tend to like things that women like and don't act like cave men. What's not to like?
2007-12-26 19:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
Guys are guys ,And does it really matter what their sexual preference is? Perhaps, Like lots of men you have never felt at home with the feminine gender,and if watching their kissing doesn't turn you on sexually,guess you got nothing to worry about
2007-12-26 19:51:59 · answer #11 · answered by Doug 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋