forget about someone you see reminders of them like EVERYWHERE?!!
2007-12-26 19:04:03 · 15 answers · asked by ¸.•*´`*•.¸ ℓανєη∂єr ¸.•*´`*•.¸ 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Because when your trying to forget thats when you remember the most. These reminders are there because your remembering to try to forget. Most likely you wouldn't even notice these things if you weren't trying to forget.
2007-12-27 17:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by Umm Ali 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you're trying to forget, it's the same as saying you're remembering, and you'll find reminders everywhere. Especially when you're trying to forget someone. Usually it's easy to forget somebody or something. When you have to actually TRY to forget something, that means it's very much burned into your mind and you won't forget, and I think seeing the "reminders" are actually just a person's way of shifting blame to something inanimate.
2007-12-27 03:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if you were not trying to forget about them then they wouldnt be reminders, if it was all still the same they would just be another thing, but if they will hurt you you will keep seeing them as reminders and not happy moemories.
2007-12-27 03:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you'd be still THINKING of them by THINKING od wanting to forget them. its a still thought to want to forget someone, and because you want to forget them, it means u had a past with the, they either ade u very happy or very sad that the memory will last longer to forget them but it will work eventually.
I like the name u chose Lavender =)
2007-12-27 03:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is so true...and I think it may be because our subconscious won't let us forget them so easily. Maybe there is a reason for it. But it sure can be painful.
2007-12-27 03:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by SuziQ211 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
totally agree and time dont heal it just amkes you put things on the side as you have no choice but to get on wiht each day but.. you have no choice
look forward try to think about other things keep your self busy so you dont get time to think
2007-12-27 03:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by pretty flower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it a mental thing,,,, take a vacation to somewhere else for a while and hopefully it might pass
Justin
2007-12-27 04:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i get real paranoid and think that the person is planting things for me to see...
2007-12-27 03:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by chilly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
coz when that someone was here, everything his or hers seemed not to be important but when he/she is gone then you kinda miss him/her and their stuffs start to become more "visible".. dats it. u miss em'
2007-12-27 03:10:55 · answer #9 · answered by Arnaq 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Cause you are trying to hard.
2007-12-27 03:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋