ok this si my friends account and she let me use it to ask this question
i am 15 years old and i went a party with the owners account when we were there we reliezed there was alchol there and my friend tried to get me to leave but i didnt so then i have a couple of drinks and this guy takes me home and 1 thing led to another and now im pregnent the father is beign good about it not denying him or her and staying with me. what should i do stay in skool drop out for the baby get rid of it when its born i am so confused please help me
2007-12-26 18:25:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
abortion i will not do no matter what and i cant give her/him away and forget like a bad dream
2007-12-26 18:38:35 · update #1
You really need to speak to your parents and a doctor or a counselor about this. This isn't the best place to ask for advice. This is your baby and your body, so you make the best decision for you.
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2007-12-26 18:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by ★☆✿❀ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is a huge situation, that only you and your family can sort out best. There is so much advice people offer, but it comes down to what your feelings are, and how you think you can cope with it. Obviously you have thought about the options, which is a start, and without knowing you I can't make a guess as to what your moral convictions are. This is a huge life changing event, and if you and your family think you can raise a child and give them a good life and provide for their needs, than you should keep the child. However, if you know you can't adoption is a safe alternative. Many couples look to adopt newborns every year. Talk to your family, I know it's scary, I was where you are, my mom calmed down and helped me through it. I won't share my choices because this needs to be your decision.
2007-12-26 18:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't drop out of school!! Seek further help, and ask your parents, or another older relative to you to help you take care of the baby. You want the baby to have a good life don't you? Therefore, theres a better chance of you having a good life if you are fully educated. You don't want to be living off a McDonalds salary to support you and your baby, do you? Get a good job! Call a helpline if you have no idea what to do. There are helplines for teenage pregnancy etc. Or, go see a councillor. You need all the help you can get!! Good luck with you and your baby!! Wishing you the best!!
2007-12-26 18:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to stay in school. Go talk to counseling at school about your problem, your parents, your education. There are places that will help you out if your parents don't support you having and keeping the child.
Remember, you are NOW an ADULT! Only YOU can make this decision. Be honest with yourself so you can be honest with your family. That's what grown ups do. Honesty. Only you live with the decision for the rest of your life. Go talk to your pastor or priest if you go to church. If you don't go to church, then pray for God to help yu find the one that can direct you properly. If you haven't yet told your parents, do it with the help of a pastor, priest, or school counselor, or other trustworthy adult. Don't expect them to celebrate like you see on funniest home vieo TV show. And remember, they LOVE you.
One of my best friends in high school had a baby at 15. She kept him. It was difficult. But she made it. Her parents were crazy mad about it at first but they came around and helped her. She got married later in life to another gentleman & got her education later in life. Her son is all grown up now and all is good.
2007-12-28 06:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by Pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never do anything without your parents advice. Try and talk to a family member that you are really close to. They are usually more understanding at first. And maybe they will adopt the baby also. Consider your own oppinions and think hard before you let the oppinions of others try to put you down.
2007-12-26 18:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend that is 15 n she's pregnant 2,
she decided to have the baby then come back to school while her parents help her with the baby,
she's been doing good but it's kind of hard
so i think you should talk to your parents or someone that can help
2007-12-26 22:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staying in school is very important, not only for you, but for your baby's sake should you decide to keep it. You need to talk to your parents. They can help you make a wise decision. Your boyfriends parents may also want to be present during the discussion. This is his baby as much as yours!
2007-12-26 18:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by ceegt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely do not drop out of school.....that would be the worst thing you could do for yourself and the child. You could give the child up at birth for adoption. Go to a doctor soon. Go to your parents now, talk to them, get their advice.
2007-12-26 18:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
See im 17 i have a 4 month old and im going to a teen parent school.Its cool and everything.But even if u have to get your GED dont drop out.School is very important.Be strong and hold it down for all the teenage moms out there.STAY BLESSED!!!
2007-12-26 18:44:48 · answer #9 · answered by Love peace and chicken grease 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents as Alex said. Yes, they are the only ones who could understand you whatever happened and whatever fault you have done. There is none else. They love you and they can give you what is good for you and the child. Best wishes.
2007-12-26 18:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by arky_ozleck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋